"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating Older Women

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So long story short I had some medical\health related issues and I didn't go on any dates for a long time maybe like 10 months. Past few months I've been getting back in the gym, lifting, MMA training, and I've cut a ton of weight, so of course my interest in females is peaking again.

There's and older women I see every once in a while walking my dog. She's always either alone or with another female, so I think it's probable she's single. If I had to guess she's probably 55 or so, but looks 45 and is in really great shape. Definitely not a super model, but considering she's just going out for a walk and not all dressed up she's pretty hot.

I've always preferred older women, but sometimes I think maybe I'm just being lazy? I used to work at a hospital and I would get hit on all the time by older women, especially married ones. I mean I am in good shape, but I'm guessing it's mostly just the fact their husbands were losers. One woman who had been hitting on me I ran into in the store with her husband. I went over to say hi just to be friendly, he was the size of a professional wrestler but he couldn't even look me in the eye and made self-deprecating comments whenever I complimented him. No wonder she is seeking attention from other men.

Anyway, do you think it's lazy and should just go meet women my own age, or should I go for it? Also, dumb question, but at her age everything still works right? I mean for some reason I just keep imaging sandpaper, but I'm pretty sure that's silly and it all works the same?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Arcturus

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Everything will work just fine at that age, from an in the bedroom perspective. You should go after all sorts of women, but it doesn't hurt to add older women to that list and isn't really being lazy, unless you feel you are using it as a crutch. I'm in my 30's, I've been dating girls in their mid 20's a lot and yesterday I ran into a woman in her mid 40's and decided to take her out as well. Don't see the harm in it. Being alpha is doing what YOU want to do, regardless of other people's expectations. Just make sure it isn't because you lack self confidence and are using older women as an easier mark to hide from insecurities. On the other hand a few lays under your belt after so long, will do wonders for your self-esteem anyways and making your game stronger over all.
 

Who Dares Win

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55 years old? If you can have an erection with such a old woman you must have impressively high level of testosterone that you're naturally on roids.

Hit the gym instead you will get big and lean at the same time then go for hotties.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrgoodstuff

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55 years old? If you can have an erection with such a old woman you must have impressively high level of testosterone that you're naturally on roids.

Hit the gym instead you will get big and lean at the same time then go for hotties.
What if she has good skin and is nicely built. A 55 yo can be better conditioned than a 35 yo.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I've nailed plenty of 50+ women and loved them all.
You guys said the older ladies have less of a strong smell downstairs, is it still a musky scent but more consistent or what?
 

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Judge nismo is an equal opportunity banger! Lazy my ass! I like older chicks. A woman is a woman is a woman. If I like, I'm gonna make a move even if it means I'm highly likely to take a hit. Being I spend most of my time working in the Atlanta Airport, it seems the older women who work there often desire a break from their work, especially those that are divorced.

I've had young and old tear off my robe in chambers. Older women are my preference.
 
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