"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dating my friends.. Sister...

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It's actually one of my best friends lmao. We've known each since we were babies. Kinda grown apart since he's gotten into weed and become a pothead and that's not my thing, but we do still hang out and talk. Anyways, his sister and I have always been on good terms. Not necessarily friends, but we get along and have all hung out together in the past. Well, I invited her out a couple weeks ago and kissed closed on the date, then we ended up going out again last night. We saw a movie, then went back to my place and it got sexual. It was funny, because she was coming onto me more than I was coming onto her. I actually TOLD her that I wanted to take things slow at some point during the making out, and 10 minutes later she was taking her own shirt and pants off and saying "we won't go too far." Well, we didn't. I didn't want too anyways. I was being sincere when I said I wanted to take it slow.

Well, today she texts me and we have this conversation:

Her: Hey, what did you tell my brother?
Me: Nothing. Why?
Her: Cuz.. He said "eww dude, you're nasty."
Me: I haven't told him anything about us.
Her: Okay. What did you tell to someone else?
Me: I haven't said anything to anyone.. Only you, me, and I guess our parents know that we've been seeing each other.
Her: Haha okay.

Drama already? Oh man.. Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You have to realize women thrive off drama.

If I were to put money on it, those texts were just about her trying to stir up drama.

You played it fine.

As far as dating your BF's sister.. I did it in high school. At first it is a shock to them, but after a short time he'll actually be glad that you (a good guy) is dating her as opposed to someone he isn't close to.
 
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it's alright dude. and I like the way you handle her text, I can kinda imagine you as a fine guy. sooner or later your bf will find out, which is fine, just don't play her I guess, since it will get ugly.
 
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It's going to get ugly when it's your best friends sister unless you plan on marrying her and that brings even more problems to the table. You handled yourself well in the texts. Goodluck my friend.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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