"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dating karma

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Do you believe in it?

For example, hb8 flakes on you twice in a row, then next thing you know, hb9 is showing high interest.

Or, conversely, you flake on hb7 knowing you aren’t into it, the following week hb9 flakes on you.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It doesn't work like that, no matter how much it seems like it. So no, I do not believe in it. That type of belief in karma is always sustained with confirmation bias. You don't pay as much attention to when it doesn't go the way you believe as you do when it happens.

The actual concept of karma seems to be too complex for most people to actually understand. It is a thing, but it has to follow causality like everything else. There's literally no possible link between the supposed cause and effect in your example, so it must be mere coincidence. You can experience coincidences that may strengthen your (incorrect) beliefs and it may not even be rare, but if you can't see a physically possible and logical link between cause and effect then it's best to leave it at that without any assumptions.

Better to say "I don't know" than to let false beliefs guide your life, stay real.
 
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