Dating in Suburbia: Pretty Fvcking Bad

[simongtown]

So I've been living in the middle of suburbia for a minute now. It has it's advantages. It's almost affordable for me. It's great if you are into nature, hiking and the like. Dating? A very mixed bag.

Nightlife: I've lucked out and managed to find some local spots that just POP. A couple of these places can get absolutely packed, and get this: ratios are very decent. On some nights, there are far more women than men. Not to mention, many are HOT. I have pulled several times from one spot in particular, not because of superior game but because some of the women are seriously down.

Even before I gained a map of the better places in town, I was doing ok driving out of town which were almost as good as what the local scene offered.

Social Circle/Daygame: this is really bad. Really, really bad. I've gone to two social circle events in the past two weeks. 2 weeks ago: the hottest girl there was a hot blonde, early 30's. I'm getting really good at guessing people's ages btw. There were twice as many women as men, but her and her friend were the only two under 40 who looked at least decent at this event. She and her girlfriend bailed early.

The only other woman who looked halfway decent catfished me. I can't guess her exact age but I'm guessing around 40. However, she posted a photo from a decade ago. She had gained weight since then and aged noticeably obviously. But still, she was a pretty blonde with blue eyes and more than passably attractive. We go out on a date last week and after a few drinks we banged at her place. Amazingly, she's never been married, and has no kids.

She's already getting demanding however. She's suggesting some very expensive restaurants around town for the next date/s. Keep in mind, this gal is 40, a bit overweight and still wants the free gravy train of drinks and expensive dinners immediately. I don't even know how to ghost her since this is suburbia. There are only so many places to socialize so even if I do she will still gossip with mutual acquaintances and portray me as the baddie.

A couple of my friends have hooked up with girls in our social circles. One guy is now dating a single mom. She is probably 40 lbs overweight or so. He is slim. He has an amazing tolerance for fat girls. He had a skinny girlfriend who got fat and now he's dating another overweight girl. The second friend is dating an early 30's gal who is also a little overweight but passably attractive with enough makeup and nicer clothes.

It's strange because the nightlife draws out some real stunners, in more than sufficient quantity, yet social circles and daygame are absolutely, appallingly bad.

 

[R.U.G.]

So I've been living in the middle of suburbia for a minute now. It has it's advantages. It's almost affordable for me. It's great if you are into nature, hiking and the like. Dating? A very mixed bag.

Nightlife: I've lucked out and managed to find some local spots that just POP. A couple of these places can get absolutely packed, and get this: ratios are very decent. On some nights, there are far more women than men. Not to mention, many are HOT. I have pulled several times from one spot in particular, not because of superior game but because some of the women are seriously down.

Even before I gained a map of the better places in town, I was doing ok driving out of town which were almost as good as what the local scene offered.

Social Circle/Daygame: this is really bad. Really, really bad. I've gone to two social circle events in the past two weeks. 2 weeks ago: the hottest girl there was a hot blonde, early 30's. I'm getting really good at guessing people's ages btw. There were twice as many women as men, but her and her friend were the only two under 40 who looked at least decent at this event. She and her girlfriend bailed early.

The only other woman who looked halfway decent catfished me. I can't guess her exact age but I'm guessing around 40. However, she posted a photo from a decade ago. She had gained weight since then and aged noticeably obviously. But still, she was a pretty blonde with blue eyes and more than passably attractive. We go out on a date last week and after a few drinks we banged at her place. Amazingly, she's never been married, and has no kids.

She's already getting demanding however. She's suggesting some very expensive restaurants around town for the next date/s. Keep in mind, this gal is 40, a bit overweight and still wants the free gravy train of drinks and expensive dinners immediately. I don't even know how to ghost her since this is suburbia. There are only so many places to socialize so even if I do she will still gossip with mutual acquaintances and portray me as the baddie.

A couple of my friends have hooked up with girls in our social circles. One guy is now dating a single mom. She is probably 40 lbs overweight or so. He is slim. He has an amazing tolerance for fat girls. He had a skinny girlfriend who got fat and now he's dating another overweight girl. The second friend is dating an early 30's gal who is also a little overweight but passably attractive with enough makeup and nicer clothes.

It's strange because the nightlife draws out some real stunners, in more than sufficient quantity, yet social circles and daygame are absolutely, appallingly bad.

Tell me about it. Location location location. When I was in the city, plenty of interested women. When I moved to the suburbs, the game sucks. Prob. is, I do not like living in condos or apts and I like my house in upper Westchester. So, it depends what is more important to you. Piece of mind in life or access to pvssy in a cramped small NYC apartment or condo. Nothing is 100% in life. It's all give and take.

 

[Mazer]

Tell me about it. Location location location. When I was in the city, plenty of interested women. When I moved to the suburbs, the game sucks. Prob. is, I do not like living in condos or apts and I like my house in upper Westchester. So, it depends what is more important to you. Piece of mind in life or access to pvssy in a cramped small NYC apartment or condo. Nothing is 100% in life. It's all give and take.

I miss the days of living in NYC. I was sexing HB-9's, hot blondes with the tightest bodies you have ever seen. Here in Jersey, I will be lucky to score an 8. I am almost tempted to move back into the city.

 

[Poonani Maker]

It's amazing how pvssy can make a man endure so much pain in order to be around. Once he gets a taste, he starts thinkin about how he can stay near and drink from the trough. The liberal areas will beget easy lays, but you'll be taking on more risk, more expense, and more discomfort. I Could move to a "college" swingy area, was just there today but it would cost me an arm and a leg. If I put in the safe bet which I have now, then my Money/house/car/lake in old age will provide the pvssy.

 

[R.U.G.]

I miss the days of living in NYC. I was sexing HB-9's, hot blondes with the tightest bodies you have ever seen. Here in Jersey, I will be lucky to score an 8. I am almost tempted to move back into the city.

Just go to Hoboken or Jersey City. I have buildings there and some really hot tenants. Hot blondes are nothing but trouble.. What is that old saying? Never trust a woman with a big butt and a smile? Same goes with big t!ts and a smile. Though, the greeks and Italians have some big butts.

 

[R.U.G.]

It's amazing how pvssy can make a man endure so much pain in order to be around. Once he gets a taste, he starts thinkin about how he can stay near and drink from the trough. The liberal areas will beget easy lays, but you'll be taking on more risk, more expense, and more discomfort. I Could move to a "college" swingy area, was just there today but it would cost me an arm and a leg. If I put in the safe bet which I have now, then my Money/house/car/lake in old age will provide the pvssy.

Can't say I have. I care more about my purpose and assets than 30 - 45 minutes of pleasure. It's a nice bonus, but it's not the end all be all.