simongtown
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So I've been living in the middle of suburbia for a minute now. It has it's advantages. It's almost affordable for me. It's great if you are into nature, hiking and the like. Dating? A very mixed bag.
Nightlife: I've lucked out and managed to find some local spots that just POP. A couple of these places can get absolutely packed, and get this: ratios are very decent. On some nights, there are far more women than men. Not to mention, many are HOT. I have pulled several times from one spot in particular, not because of superior game but because some of the women are seriously down.
Even before I gained a map of the better places in town, I was doing ok driving out of town which were almost as good as what the local scene offered.
Social Circle/Daygame: this is really bad. Really, really bad. I've gone to two social circle events in the past two weeks. 2 weeks ago: the hottest girl there was a hot blonde, early 30's. I'm getting really good at guessing people's ages btw. There were twice as many women as men, but her and her friend were the only two under 40 who looked at least decent at this event. She and her girlfriend bailed early.
The only other woman who looked halfway decent catfished me. I can't guess her exact age but I'm guessing around 40. However, she posted a photo from a decade ago. She had gained weight since then and aged noticeably obviously. But still, she was a pretty blonde with blue eyes and more than passably attractive. We go out on a date last week and after a few drinks we banged at her place. Amazingly, she's never been married, and has no kids.
She's already getting demanding however. She's suggesting some very expensive restaurants around town for the next date/s. Keep in mind, this gal is 40, a bit overweight and still wants the free gravy train of drinks and expensive dinners immediately. I don't even know how to ghost her since this is suburbia. There are only so many places to socialize so even if I do she will still gossip with mutual acquaintances and portray me as the baddie.
A couple of my friends have hooked up with girls in our social circles. One guy is now dating a single mom. She is probably 40 lbs overweight or so. He is slim. He has an amazing tolerance for fat girls. He had a skinny girlfriend who got fat and now he's dating another overweight girl. The second friend is dating an early 30's gal who is also a little overweight but passably attractive with enough makeup and nicer clothes.
It's strange because the nightlife draws out some real stunners, in more than sufficient quantity, yet social circles and daygame are absolutely, appallingly bad.
Nightlife: I've lucked out and managed to find some local spots that just POP. A couple of these places can get absolutely packed, and get this: ratios are very decent. On some nights, there are far more women than men. Not to mention, many are HOT. I have pulled several times from one spot in particular, not because of superior game but because some of the women are seriously down.
Even before I gained a map of the better places in town, I was doing ok driving out of town which were almost as good as what the local scene offered.
Social Circle/Daygame: this is really bad. Really, really bad. I've gone to two social circle events in the past two weeks. 2 weeks ago: the hottest girl there was a hot blonde, early 30's. I'm getting really good at guessing people's ages btw. There were twice as many women as men, but her and her friend were the only two under 40 who looked at least decent at this event. She and her girlfriend bailed early.
The only other woman who looked halfway decent catfished me. I can't guess her exact age but I'm guessing around 40. However, she posted a photo from a decade ago. She had gained weight since then and aged noticeably obviously. But still, she was a pretty blonde with blue eyes and more than passably attractive. We go out on a date last week and after a few drinks we banged at her place. Amazingly, she's never been married, and has no kids.
She's already getting demanding however. She's suggesting some very expensive restaurants around town for the next date/s. Keep in mind, this gal is 40, a bit overweight and still wants the free gravy train of drinks and expensive dinners immediately. I don't even know how to ghost her since this is suburbia. There are only so many places to socialize so even if I do she will still gossip with mutual acquaintances and portray me as the baddie.
A couple of my friends have hooked up with girls in our social circles. One guy is now dating a single mom. She is probably 40 lbs overweight or so. He is slim. He has an amazing tolerance for fat girls. He had a skinny girlfriend who got fat and now he's dating another overweight girl. The second friend is dating an early 30's gal who is also a little overweight but passably attractive with enough makeup and nicer clothes.
It's strange because the nightlife draws out some real stunners, in more than sufficient quantity, yet social circles and daygame are absolutely, appallingly bad.
