"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating in Portugal

Toddy

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I've been living in the UK for 40 years, and am starting to plan for an early retirement when I'm 55. I've been to Portugal a number of times, and enjoy the weather and playing golf, and quite fancy moving to the Algarve.
I'm interested to hear whether anyone has moved from an English speaking country (I don't speak Portuguese, but plan to learn) to a non-english speaking country and how they found dating?
I don't really want to find and take an LTR with me from the UK, just so I can bang regularly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bigpapa

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I've been living in the UK for 40 years, and am starting to plan for an early retirement when I'm 55. I've been to Portugal a number of times, and enjoy the weather and playing golf, and quite fancy moving to the Algarve.
I'm interested to hear whether anyone has moved from an English speaking country (I don't speak Portuguese, but plan to learn) to a non-english speaking country and how they found dating?
I don't really want to find and take an LTR with me from the UK, just so I can bang regularly.
As you might now , most Portuguese are quite fluent in English , so the language barrier is not necessarily a problem ( depending on the target group . Older people tend to not speak good English )
 

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Can you go into further details?
Portuguese women on average are shy . Just as Greek women are

but there are a lot of expats and tourists , so I would not be that worried about it
 

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Thanks, so hopefully the locals body counts will be low.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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