"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dating in Portugal

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I've been living in the UK for 40 years, and am starting to plan for an early retirement when I'm 55. I've been to Portugal a number of times, and enjoy the weather and playing golf, and quite fancy moving to the Algarve.
I'm interested to hear whether anyone has moved from an English speaking country (I don't speak Portuguese, but plan to learn) to a non-english speaking country and how they found dating?
I don't really want to find and take an LTR with me from the UK, just so I can bang regularly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Toddy said:
I've been living in the UK for 40 years, and am starting to plan for an early retirement when I'm 55. I've been to Portugal a number of times, and enjoy the weather and playing golf, and quite fancy moving to the Algarve.
I'm interested to hear whether anyone has moved from an English speaking country (I don't speak Portuguese, but plan to learn) to a non-english speaking country and how they found dating?
I don't really want to find and take an LTR with me from the UK, just so I can bang regularly.
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As you might now , most Portuguese are quite fluent in English , so the language barrier is not necessarily a problem ( depending on the target group . Older people tend to not speak good English )
 
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Chowdah said:
Can you go into further details?
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Portuguese women on average are shy . Just as Greek women are

but there are a lot of expats and tourists , so I would not be that worried about it
 
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Thanks, so hopefully the locals body counts will be low.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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