ConfusedHSer
Don Juan
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So I've been lurking these forums for quite some time now, and I need some help.
I have a few key inquiries that I haven't been finding answers to.
So some background information I'm average-above average looking, good grades, arts, etc so I have the basic materials.
However I have pretty horrible social skills seeing as a couple years back I was a basement gaming nerd, I decided to take incentive and start working out and quitting meaningless tasks like gaming altogether.
So fast forward into current time, I'm doing okay with women had my first girlfriend break up with me a couple months ago due to my idiocy and lack of knowledge. I decided to go look around for some help online.
So------
Usually when I start talking with girls we have a quick conversation in real life, they add me on Facebook we chat a bit and they give me their MSN and number (without me asking).
We talk on MSN once or twice (I make sure I don't contact them first, and when we do talk I keep it brief).
Eventually they want to meet up again (they're pretty much asking me on a date, but they don't call it that), and tryyyyyyyyy and keep the conversation going and try and put in some C&C and kino, but I don't think I'm doing it right.
Could I have some example scenarios and lines that you've used (just to see what they look like).
Also when we go out to eat am I supposed to pay? I'm not sure if it's a formal date (but it's just me and a girl and she asked me to go out with her). I usually just partially pay for them, for example the bill comes to like 22.50, I'll be like just give me a 10 and I'll get the bill.
Is this right?
Can I have some more tips?
I've read through most of the DJ bible, but are there any other reccomended articles I can read?
I realize asking online is stupid, but this site seems to work.
NOTE: Younger ages-- age 16-18. :wave:
I have a few key inquiries that I haven't been finding answers to.
So some background information I'm average-above average looking, good grades, arts, etc so I have the basic materials.
However I have pretty horrible social skills seeing as a couple years back I was a basement gaming nerd, I decided to take incentive and start working out and quitting meaningless tasks like gaming altogether.
So fast forward into current time, I'm doing okay with women had my first girlfriend break up with me a couple months ago due to my idiocy and lack of knowledge. I decided to go look around for some help online.
So------
Usually when I start talking with girls we have a quick conversation in real life, they add me on Facebook we chat a bit and they give me their MSN and number (without me asking).
We talk on MSN once or twice (I make sure I don't contact them first, and when we do talk I keep it brief).
Eventually they want to meet up again (they're pretty much asking me on a date, but they don't call it that), and tryyyyyyyyy and keep the conversation going and try and put in some C&C and kino, but I don't think I'm doing it right.
Could I have some example scenarios and lines that you've used (just to see what they look like).
Also when we go out to eat am I supposed to pay? I'm not sure if it's a formal date (but it's just me and a girl and she asked me to go out with her). I usually just partially pay for them, for example the bill comes to like 22.50, I'll be like just give me a 10 and I'll get the bill.
Is this right?
Can I have some more tips?
I've read through most of the DJ bible, but are there any other reccomended articles I can read?
I realize asking online is stupid, but this site seems to work.
NOTE: Younger ages-- age 16-18. :wave: