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Dating help. Havnt dated in years.

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Basically what I need help with is how often I should be contacting her without coming off as not-interested, or coming off as too needy.


So, Ive recently started seeing this girl. I was supposed to meet her parents over dinner at her place.. but because weve never actually hung out before in the past or never really spoke, I replanned it so it would just be me taking her out for dinner so I can get to know her better. Resulting in me being more comfortable meeting her parents in the future.

Date goes by, everything goes smooth. Sealed with a kiss at the end of the meal, went back to her place for 30 minutes. Kissed a bit, no real intense make out sessions (For good reasons) but kissing and a lot of touching.

Had to leave, she wanted me to stay and she dragged it out for as long as she could. When I got home I decided to wait 2 days before making a follow up date. On the second day she messages (She basically initiated the convo) me and asked if I had fun. Made some small talk and now we have a follow up for friday. That was on Tuesday. Since Tuesday I havnt messaged or called her. The dates in 2 days, should I start up some small talk, or go silent until friday?

I was always told to make the girl chase you. Obviously after the second date ill be talking to her more. But how should I play this as of now?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As long as she's initiating more than you you're good.
 
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As long as she's initiating more than you you're good

This, although in the beginning (first week or two, you may be initiating more).

As far as you wanting to text her, it doesnt matter. I guarantee she will text you before Friday. I personally would just wait. Heres an example of the first two weeks of a timeline with a new HB plate i added:

Sat-Got phone number/kclose
Mon-I send first text. Quick chat about things that happened sat night. Humor, confidence, etc.
Wed-She texted me. I sent 2 texts, conversation over.
Fri-I set plans for Tuesday night.
Mon-She texts me to see if plans on still on. I respond with "yes" and was done with it.
Tues-She texts me about an hour before date and all was good.
Thurs- I texted thurs told her i had fun. Short chat.
Fri- She texted and we made plans for Sunday night.
 
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TheException said:
As long as she's initiating more than you you're good

This, although in the beginning (first week or two, you may be initiating more).

As far as you wanting to text her, it doesnt matter. I guarantee she will text you before Friday. I personally would just wait. Heres an example of the first two weeks of a timeline with a new HB plate i added:

Sat-Got phone number/kclose
Mon-I send first text. Quick chat about things that happened sat night. Humor, confidence, etc.
Wed-She texted me. I sent 2 texts, conversation over.
Fri-I set plans for Tuesday night.
Mon-She texts me to see if plans on still on. I respond with "yes" and was done with it.
Tues-She texts me about an hour before date and all was good.
Thurs- I texted thurs told her i had fun. Short chat.
Fri- She texted and we made plans for Sunday night.
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This is pretty much how it went down for me. Friday was good went smoothly overall. Now, should I initiate or just wait for her?
 
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You can text her. Your just trying to avoid coming off as needy, so the "golden ratio" is 2:3 you send two texts for every three she sends. Just really helps you to avoid getting clingy and killing any attraction the girl has for you.

How was friday? How much physical escalation did you do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheException said:
You can text her. Your just trying to avoid coming off as needy, so the "golden ratio" is 2:3 you send two texts for every three she sends. Just really helps you to avoid getting clingy and killing any attraction the girl has for you.

How was friday? How much physical escalation did you do?
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No sex, but quite a bit of physical escalation. As soon as I walked in she pretty much wrapped her arms around me, so I guess thats a good sign.

She keeps asking if shes difficult though, almost as though shes insecure about a past relationship. Other than that, the synergy is amazing.
 
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No sex, but quite a bit of physical escalation.

Sex should come around date 3 as a baseline. Any longer you run the risk of getting LJBF. Next time you hang out kiss her. Period. Either do it or get rejected for trying to kiss.
 
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Texting is ok, but don't freak out if she doesn't answer right away. That's where guys go wrong. Then they follow with a text like Helloo??????? and then you're a clinger, and it's all downhill from there.
 
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Texting is ok, but don't freak out if she doesn't answer right away. That's where guys go wrong. Then they follow with a text like Helloo??????? and then you're a clinger, and it's all downhill from there.
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I know some girls like that. Theyre the worst.

But yeah, Ive given myself an ultimatum. If no sex happens next time (Depending on circumstances) ill go completely radio silent
 
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