"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dating good looking girls, trouble?

blackwolf

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ive always thought to myself, dating a good looking girl would be a little more hard work and trouble than an average looking girl. does anyone agree? i mean, when you're out with your hot gf, you have to worry about all these horny guys checking her out and chatting her up if you leave her alone for a few minutes. also when you're not with her, you have to wonder how many guys shes talking to. not so much jealousy but it's true that they get so much attention it makes you wonder sometimes.

also, id imagine there's a bit more work to be put in with these relationships, you have to always be tip top in her eyes because she's got a hundred more guys lined up waiting for her to be single again. any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blackwolf

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everytime i see couples and the girl is really good looking, they just don't look 100% happy.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Also, their personalities suck on average. Attractiveness is so subjective though, like there are HB5's that Im incredibly attracted to, whether because of a sexy personality or voice or whatever, and some 5's that I am repulsed by. I often say that what many men want is to find their "diamond in the rough", that they are attracted to but other men are not that attracted to so they dont have to look over their shoulder.
Sometimes, good looking is universal, remember that. And to answer the OP question, YES, dating good looking girls are a chore!!

Remember, I never said, picking 'em up is a chore :cool: but dating 'em is...

Unless you really have SOME VALUE yourself. One thing, relationships occur on mutual value comparison. Any disparity will be subjected to punishment.
 

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If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

This is just talking marriage or long term relationships. For those make sure the girl is nice, intelligent, clean, a good cook, then good looking.

For fvcking, the reverse.
 

blackwolf

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ive found that ugly/fat girls make the best for long term. everyone i know whos in a good relationship have fat, ugly, average looking or all are the most happiest. those women do anything for their men. they cook, clean, they are nice, don't play mind games. i guess its either that or just wait around for your dream girl (which is rare to happen)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Deadly_Ripped

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You say that it's not about jealousy, but if worrying about who she's talking to isn't jealously, then I don't know what is!!!

Making her believe that you're not the one who has to prove your worth is the key to having a gorgeous woman as your girlfriend/wife. If she believes that she has the power in the relationship, then she'll naturally be inclined to make you work for the relationship more than otherwise.
 
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