"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dating good looking girls, trouble?

blackwolf

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ive always thought to myself, dating a good looking girl would be a little more hard work and trouble than an average looking girl. does anyone agree? i mean, when you're out with your hot gf, you have to worry about all these horny guys checking her out and chatting her up if you leave her alone for a few minutes. also when you're not with her, you have to wonder how many guys shes talking to. not so much jealousy but it's true that they get so much attention it makes you wonder sometimes.

also, id imagine there's a bit more work to be put in with these relationships, you have to always be tip top in her eyes because she's got a hundred more guys lined up waiting for her to be single again. any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blackwolf

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everytime i see couples and the girl is really good looking, they just don't look 100% happy.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Also, their personalities suck on average. Attractiveness is so subjective though, like there are HB5's that Im incredibly attracted to, whether because of a sexy personality or voice or whatever, and some 5's that I am repulsed by. I often say that what many men want is to find their "diamond in the rough", that they are attracted to but other men are not that attracted to so they dont have to look over their shoulder.
Sometimes, good looking is universal, remember that. And to answer the OP question, YES, dating good looking girls are a chore!!

Remember, I never said, picking 'em up is a chore :cool: but dating 'em is...

Unless you really have SOME VALUE yourself. One thing, relationships occur on mutual value comparison. Any disparity will be subjected to punishment.
 

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If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

This is just talking marriage or long term relationships. For those make sure the girl is nice, intelligent, clean, a good cook, then good looking.

For fvcking, the reverse.
 

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ive found that ugly/fat girls make the best for long term. everyone i know whos in a good relationship have fat, ugly, average looking or all are the most happiest. those women do anything for their men. they cook, clean, they are nice, don't play mind games. i guess its either that or just wait around for your dream girl (which is rare to happen)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You say that it's not about jealousy, but if worrying about who she's talking to isn't jealously, then I don't know what is!!!

Making her believe that you're not the one who has to prove your worth is the key to having a gorgeous woman as your girlfriend/wife. If she believes that she has the power in the relationship, then she'll naturally be inclined to make you work for the relationship more than otherwise.
 
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