"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating girls in your class

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Guys I was just wondering is dating multiple girls in any of your college class the same thing as dating someone from work. People normally say it's not good to date co-workers. College just started up back again and I see a couple of HBs I'd like to talk but they are in the same class, so it's not like they are in another class. I'd like to know your take on this situation guys. I guess the thing to be concerned about is if I started dating a couple of them and they were feeling me wouldn't the others involved pick up on the vibes of the other girls? On the flip side if things don't work out btw me and a certain girl then what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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make sure they know your views on girls if u wanna date them
 
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Dont do it.

Ive done it and it caused social divisions in the class + i couldn't stand the sight of her but had to see her each day. Really not worth it... theres thousands more girls on campus to choose from...
 
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Basically you're juggling wolves if you do.

Sure they're cute and you luv em, but the instant they see another one they'll tear you apart.

Tread carefully dude, but don't be afraid to do anything.
 
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Go ahead and date them. But as stated, let them know that you just want to hang with nice girls and make new friends. If you are cool guy and not an A*hole who will play games then they will not mind. No girl will turn down to hang out with a confident and fun guy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trd323 said:
Go ahead and date them. But as stated, let them know that you just want to hang with nice girls and make new friends. If you are cool guy and not an A*hole who will play games then they will not mind. No girl will turn down to hang out with a confident and fun guy.
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Guys, well if I was just hanging out with them as friends wouldn't be a problem now would it? We talk of spinning plates here all the time. Yea, I was thinking along the lines of spinning plates with these girls. I've gotten the contact info of girls in my class but usually not more than 2 at a time. I remember once I really got close to this girl in one of my classes, we hung out a bunch and she didn't even mind kissing me in the parking lot. While it was flattering it was odd considering we hadn't decided what we were and I'm not much for PDA. Anyway, she left over at my place once and we made out but she wouldn't let me go so far. While I was sleeping she snuck off and went home (she said she couldn't sleep) anyway, we ended up as friends but still had fun hanging out. She would've made a very good girl friend. Infact as funny as this may seem, she once brought me a flower (an orchid), she said it looked like pvssy, lol. Anyway, just a story I thought I'd share.
 
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