"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guys I was just wondering is dating multiple girls in any of your college class the same thing as dating someone from work. People normally say it's not good to date co-workers. College just started up back again and I see a couple of HBs I'd like to talk but they are in the same class, so it's not like they are in another class. I'd like to know your take on this situation guys. I guess the thing to be concerned about is if I started dating a couple of them and they were feeling me wouldn't the others involved pick up on the vibes of the other girls? On the flip side if things don't work out btw me and a certain girl then what?
 

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make sure they know your views on girls if u wanna date them
 
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Dont do it.

Ive done it and it caused social divisions in the class + i couldn't stand the sight of her but had to see her each day. Really not worth it... theres thousands more girls on campus to choose from...
 
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Basically you're juggling wolves if you do.

Sure they're cute and you luv em, but the instant they see another one they'll tear you apart.

Tread carefully dude, but don't be afraid to do anything.
 
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Go ahead and date them. But as stated, let them know that you just want to hang with nice girls and make new friends. If you are cool guy and not an A*hole who will play games then they will not mind. No girl will turn down to hang out with a confident and fun guy.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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trd323 said:
Go ahead and date them. But as stated, let them know that you just want to hang with nice girls and make new friends. If you are cool guy and not an A*hole who will play games then they will not mind. No girl will turn down to hang out with a confident and fun guy.
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Guys, well if I was just hanging out with them as friends wouldn't be a problem now would it? We talk of spinning plates here all the time. Yea, I was thinking along the lines of spinning plates with these girls. I've gotten the contact info of girls in my class but usually not more than 2 at a time. I remember once I really got close to this girl in one of my classes, we hung out a bunch and she didn't even mind kissing me in the parking lot. While it was flattering it was odd considering we hadn't decided what we were and I'm not much for PDA. Anyway, she left over at my place once and we made out but she wouldn't let me go so far. While I was sleeping she snuck off and went home (she said she couldn't sleep) anyway, we ended up as friends but still had fun hanging out. She would've made a very good girl friend. Infact as funny as this may seem, she once brought me a flower (an orchid), she said it looked like pvssy, lol. Anyway, just a story I thought I'd share.
 
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