“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sangheilios

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Awesome that you take group fitness classes. I belong to two gyms at the moment, one is La Fitness where they used to offer a bootcamp class (did it for 7 years, then got cancelled) and the other gym is owned by two women who offer just group fitness classes.

I've noticed (atleast in NJ) most men for whatever reason are not into group fitness (only maybe Crossfit) and there are plenty of women in these classes. I met and hung out with a 21 year old (I was 41) and also went out with a Bulgarian (10 years my junior) thanks to these group fitness classes.

You are right, most of these classes you have to do the talking 5 mins before or after.
I think yoga is a really good one to look into, in my current city they had a yoga for singles night but it never worked out with my schedule, it was literally $5 for the class and you just bring your own mat.
 

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Awesome that you take group fitness classes. I belong to two gyms at the moment, one is La Fitness where they used to offer a bootcamp class (did it for 7 years, then got cancelled) and the other gym is owned by two women who offer just group fitness classes.

I've noticed (atleast in NJ) most men for whatever reason are not into group fitness (only maybe Crossfit) and there are plenty of women in these classes. I met and hung out with a 21 year old (I was 41) and also went out with a Bulgarian (10 years my junior) thanks to these group fitness classes.

You are right, most of these classes you have to do the talking 5 mins before or after.
Same stuff happens in Dallas. All group classes are more women than men. The few men I've seen in group fitness classes don't seem to be huge approachers like I have been. I've never gotten anything meaningful out of app swiping, but I have gotten extended relationships out of day approaching, including group fitness. It is a huge time suck to do fitness class approaching, but it is a good venue for approaching.

I'm not sure how this comes back post pandemic.
 
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