Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think yoga is a really good one to look into, in my current city they had a yoga for singles night but it never worked out with my schedule, it was literally $5 for the class and you just bring your own mat.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Same stuff happens in Dallas. All group classes are more women than men. The few men I've seen in group fitness classes don't seem to be huge approachers like I have been. I've never gotten anything meaningful out of app swiping, but I have gotten extended relationships out of day approaching, including group fitness. It is a huge time suck to do fitness class approaching, but it is a good venue for approaching.