Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
This site is one of the only seduction sites that constantly put there interactions in a dating frame. An then they wonder why the girl's "play hard to get" (What some like to call attention *****s)
The thing is your actually killing the whole attraction by putting it in a dating frame. So what are ways that your putting it in a dating frame...
1. Asking a woman out - I've noticed a lot of guys are asking women out. This isn't something that needs to be formalized. You don't have to ask her out on a formal date to the movies and all that. You turn it into a bf/gf frame and cause yourself to be in the "provider" category.
Instead of asking women out just let the whole relationship unfold. Just hangout have fun together after awhile you can decide where you want to take this relationship. Do you want her for long term, Fukbuddy, friend, pivot, whatever. For now your just hanging out and just getting to know each other.
2. Becoming Bf/Gf and you never even had sex together - This is another thing that should never happen. Sex happens quickly and is normal and natural. Once you become Bf/Gf and never even had sex together it turns sex into this big thing. Girl's can also tend to hold out on sex because they are now using it as a power. If you haven't had sex with the girl yet don't even bother thinking about trying to have a LTR with her and you haven't even had sex. Have the fun now and build the connection after sex, that way its not this big thing.
Now on the flipside of things you should just have fun and she should be watching your personality unfold. You're not commited to nothing she is just seeing how you are as a person and then sex happens. An that's when you decide what you want out of this whole interaction.
When you put the interaction in the frame that you are dating that's when she holds sex out on you and use it as a power. I've spoken to girls and asked them how long does a guy have to wait before they have sex with them. Most said a month. (It's fascinating what women can sometimes say and do) Now guys who are put into the provider frame is usually the guys who have to follow those rules. I had a friend who went out with a girl for a month and didn't fuk her. Then another friend ended up fuking her in a week because he never put it as "We are now bf/gf"
You should never be thinking, "I should ask her out to movies." Man up there is a difference when saying..."Hey I want to take you out for dinner." to "Hey I'm bored as sh!t at home get dress lets go catch a movie." Notice the sublte differences and what mindset there coming from.
A thing to keep in mind is lead her. Don't ask for permission to do anything, you lead the whole interaction. It shows dominance, your not like every other chode asking for permission.
So don't put your interaction in a dating frame. You'll end up being the provider who takes her home and kiss her at the end of your romantic date and then you leaves as she gets railed by some guy who was fun and an overall cool guy.
The thing is your actually killing the whole attraction by putting it in a dating frame. So what are ways that your putting it in a dating frame...
1. Asking a woman out - I've noticed a lot of guys are asking women out. This isn't something that needs to be formalized. You don't have to ask her out on a formal date to the movies and all that. You turn it into a bf/gf frame and cause yourself to be in the "provider" category.
Instead of asking women out just let the whole relationship unfold. Just hangout have fun together after awhile you can decide where you want to take this relationship. Do you want her for long term, Fukbuddy, friend, pivot, whatever. For now your just hanging out and just getting to know each other.
2. Becoming Bf/Gf and you never even had sex together - This is another thing that should never happen. Sex happens quickly and is normal and natural. Once you become Bf/Gf and never even had sex together it turns sex into this big thing. Girl's can also tend to hold out on sex because they are now using it as a power. If you haven't had sex with the girl yet don't even bother thinking about trying to have a LTR with her and you haven't even had sex. Have the fun now and build the connection after sex, that way its not this big thing.
Now on the flipside of things you should just have fun and she should be watching your personality unfold. You're not commited to nothing she is just seeing how you are as a person and then sex happens. An that's when you decide what you want out of this whole interaction.
When you put the interaction in the frame that you are dating that's when she holds sex out on you and use it as a power. I've spoken to girls and asked them how long does a guy have to wait before they have sex with them. Most said a month. (It's fascinating what women can sometimes say and do) Now guys who are put into the provider frame is usually the guys who have to follow those rules. I had a friend who went out with a girl for a month and didn't fuk her. Then another friend ended up fuking her in a week because he never put it as "We are now bf/gf"
You should never be thinking, "I should ask her out to movies." Man up there is a difference when saying..."Hey I want to take you out for dinner." to "Hey I'm bored as sh!t at home get dress lets go catch a movie." Notice the sublte differences and what mindset there coming from.
A thing to keep in mind is lead her. Don't ask for permission to do anything, you lead the whole interaction. It shows dominance, your not like every other chode asking for permission.
So don't put your interaction in a dating frame. You'll end up being the provider who takes her home and kiss her at the end of your romantic date and then you leaves as she gets railed by some guy who was fun and an overall cool guy.