Dating foreign chick from India

[rjherche]

Here's the situation: I sat next to this HB8 (IMO at least) in my calculus class last week and got her number. She's from India. So I called her up and we're supposed to go out to dinner Wednesday night.

The thing is, I've never dated a foreign chick ever. I don't know what to expect. She's from Bombay and has gone to school here for three years (she's a freshman in college and I'm a sophomore). She's fluent in English and everything, but I don't know how she'll react if I try to kiss her. I also drive a really loud car and I don't know if she'll be turned off by that or something. Basically, I'm not in my element here.

Has anyone ever dated a foreign chick, or have any insights to share about doing so? Is there anything I should keep in mind so as to not offend her or something? Does anybody know anything about Indian culture and Indian chicks in particular?

 

[Julian]

Dude do some searches on Indian culture, learn some phrases. Then just be yourself...and when you are conversating with her, respond in her language, she will be surpised and when she asks where you learned it just say you had a friend who was from India or something.

I know this is kind of try hard but she will be impressed by your cultural diversity. Anyway, dont worry about your gotdamn car, what are you gonna do? Sell it so you can date this chick? Come on dude, rev that muther fvcking engine and cruise.. who cares what she says about it.

Just be happy your going on a date with a hot east indian (something ive never done but would liike to). Also, dont discuss religion or any of that BS, you should know this already tho.

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Im from bombay/India & girls are all wired the same way. It depends how she is as an individual.

 

[DJ_Dork]

No, Do not try to impress her. Just ask a couple questions about her and let that be the topic of dinner conversation.

She's just like any other girl.

 

[Skel]

Just so you know her parents will come on the date with you.

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Heh, like i said depends how she is - whether introverted or extroverted , liberal or conservative etc ..

Also You can ask her stuff about India & make convo.

 

[squirrels]

What are you getting at, here?

You want to be someone OTHER than yourself in order to impress this girl? What happens if you start dating her? Are you going to keep up the facade so you can PRETEND to be the kind of guy that "foreign girls" like? Struggle through a relationship and do things you really don't to do just to be able to say you "have someone?"

Beyond basic respect for the culture, you don't have to do ANYTHING different. Don't tolerate annoying or unattractive behaviors from a girl just because she's foreign...you wouldn't with a domestic girl.

You may FIND stuff about that culture that you want to assimilate because YOU think it benefits or complements YOU as a person, but that's a different story entirely.