"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dating for experience

Sweetcheeks

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I'm currently dating a 23-year old aerobics instructor/personal trainer. She is:

-a spoiled princess, used to getting her way
-gets hit on about 5 times a day by the guys that work out at her gym
-stated that she dumped her last 6 boyfriends for being boring and possessive
-Stated that she prefers tall white guys (I am a short(ish) Chinese guy)
-Constantly throws tests at me

She is physically attractive to me, we have a good time whenever we're together.

I've managed to manage our relationship well enough that she:

-Pays for most of our dates (I'm only working part-time, as a student)
-Calls me 2-3 times a day, trying to make dates
-Is constantly initiating intimacy and sex with me
-Apologizes every time I call her for testing me

I have a tendency to try to seek out PITA type chicks. I think that is because I find overcoming the challenges they pose so interesting.

I'm of the opinion that if I can handle girls like this and turn the tables, then I'll be more prepared for MS. RIGHT when she finally turns up. I'll have developed my confidence, self-control, comedy, charisma, leadership and assertiveness skills sufficiently to be more than a worthy match.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ER!C L!VE

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I wanna date a personal trainer too. Hook a brotha up.

What does PITA mean? :cheer:
 

Ricky

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Pain in the ass.

You know what, I think in contrary to what I said about the some gf is better than any thread, that what you said may have validity.

I dated a party girl like this. I really didnt care the outcome because I knew she wasn't long term relationship material.

BUT She was hot and a good lay. I was never serious with her, but slowly did start to fall for her.

Until she turned on the royal ***** factor one night. I nexted her and went on to another girl I was dating at the same time!
 
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