"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating for experience

Sweetcheeks

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I'm currently dating a 23-year old aerobics instructor/personal trainer. She is:

-a spoiled princess, used to getting her way
-gets hit on about 5 times a day by the guys that work out at her gym
-stated that she dumped her last 6 boyfriends for being boring and possessive
-Stated that she prefers tall white guys (I am a short(ish) Chinese guy)
-Constantly throws tests at me

She is physically attractive to me, we have a good time whenever we're together.

I've managed to manage our relationship well enough that she:

-Pays for most of our dates (I'm only working part-time, as a student)
-Calls me 2-3 times a day, trying to make dates
-Is constantly initiating intimacy and sex with me
-Apologizes every time I call her for testing me

I have a tendency to try to seek out PITA type chicks. I think that is because I find overcoming the challenges they pose so interesting.

I'm of the opinion that if I can handle girls like this and turn the tables, then I'll be more prepared for MS. RIGHT when she finally turns up. I'll have developed my confidence, self-control, comedy, charisma, leadership and assertiveness skills sufficiently to be more than a worthy match.

What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ER!C L!VE

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I wanna date a personal trainer too. Hook a brotha up.

What does PITA mean? :cheer:
 

Ricky

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Pain in the ass.

You know what, I think in contrary to what I said about the some gf is better than any thread, that what you said may have validity.

I dated a party girl like this. I really didnt care the outcome because I knew she wasn't long term relationship material.

BUT She was hot and a good lay. I was never serious with her, but slowly did start to fall for her.

Until she turned on the royal ***** factor one night. I nexted her and went on to another girl I was dating at the same time!
 
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