"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating for experience

Sweetcheeks

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I'm currently dating a 23-year old aerobics instructor/personal trainer. She is:

-a spoiled princess, used to getting her way
-gets hit on about 5 times a day by the guys that work out at her gym
-stated that she dumped her last 6 boyfriends for being boring and possessive
-Stated that she prefers tall white guys (I am a short(ish) Chinese guy)
-Constantly throws tests at me

She is physically attractive to me, we have a good time whenever we're together.

I've managed to manage our relationship well enough that she:

-Pays for most of our dates (I'm only working part-time, as a student)
-Calls me 2-3 times a day, trying to make dates
-Is constantly initiating intimacy and sex with me
-Apologizes every time I call her for testing me

I have a tendency to try to seek out PITA type chicks. I think that is because I find overcoming the challenges they pose so interesting.

I'm of the opinion that if I can handle girls like this and turn the tables, then I'll be more prepared for MS. RIGHT when she finally turns up. I'll have developed my confidence, self-control, comedy, charisma, leadership and assertiveness skills sufficiently to be more than a worthy match.

What do you guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ER!C L!VE

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I wanna date a personal trainer too. Hook a brotha up.

What does PITA mean? :cheer:
 

Ricky

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Pain in the ass.

You know what, I think in contrary to what I said about the some gf is better than any thread, that what you said may have validity.

I dated a party girl like this. I really didnt care the outcome because I knew she wasn't long term relationship material.

BUT She was hot and a good lay. I was never serious with her, but slowly did start to fall for her.

Until she turned on the royal ***** factor one night. I nexted her and went on to another girl I was dating at the same time!
 
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