"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you ever considering dating one of your ex's relatives? Last year I was involved in a committed relationhip with this 19 year old girl for about 8 months. Things got messy (I told her I was in love with someone else) and so it obviously ended and we are just friends now.

One time, I met an aunt of her's and helped her aunt with some homework (she is taking some part-time university courses). Well a few months later, she gets a new job and is looking to hire consultants. I am selected as one the consultants from a pool that they utilize on a regular basis.

Well, a while ago, my ex told me that her aunt broke up w/ her boyfriend. Her aunt is good looking and more mature than my ex and more within my age range. We have also gotten to know each other through work.

Is she off limits?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would you ever considering dating one of your ex's relatives?

UHHH:

HELL FAWKING NO!!!!!!!

I'm not that desperate. I just heard about this woman who is now dating her best friends soon to be ex-husband...now that is also some trashy skanky assed shyt.

There are too many fine women out there without having to resort to low life shyt like this.

And then you gotta see your ex's funky ass to at gatherings. Done is Done.
 
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If she had dumped you it would be like a little revenge(mm...no...A GREAT REVENGE)...

but you dumped her...so it might hurt her...

but in this world if you dont eat, you'll be eaten...if you like the girl DO IT... !!!( but try not to hurt her as possible)...


REMEMBER... Always try not to hurt innocent people...this world of romance, love, and rejection, has too much pain allready...even though sometimes it is unavoidable...
 
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How long ago was it? December last year or January last year?
Is your ex (and her parents) close to her aunt?
Did she introduce the two of you?
Why did your ex tell you her aunt was now single?
Are you and your ex REALLY over each other?

Unless your answers to these really suggest that you and the ex are finished with each other and everything is sweet, then YES! the aunt is absolutely off limits. It would just be awkward as hell and there are women out there who are just as great without the uncomfortable family ties.
 
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Maybe you could someday become your ex-girlfriend's uncle!

If'n your fambly an' y'all don't mind none havin' screwed your niece!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Only for temporary revenge. But it would depend on the past circumstances involved. If it's distant family, and I really liked her, maybe.

-Rabid
 
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