"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shagnscoob

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how many of you guys have bought dating ebooks from this website, like double your dating, or swinggcats ebook?

im wondering if they are worth it, or any good anyway
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I first read Double your Dating and that totally opened my eyes. After absorbing DYD material, I got Swinggcat's book and got a few extra pointers there.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I agree, DYD is good.
The DYD ebook is pretty basic stuff, but the advanced series is dynamite.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by AverageFC
you can find them on p2p programs. No need to buy em.
I may be oversteping my bounds but I wouldn't suggest telling people to do that. Many of the people who write these ebooks are patrons to this site.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I may be oversteping my bounds but I wouldn't suggest telling people to do that. Many of the people who write these ebooks are patrons to this site.
id buy em anyway, i dont steal things


so is the DYD ebook actually like, stuff i would learn just by reading the bible compared to the advanced series which i would definately learn beyond anything this website and these forums could teach me?
 

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
id buy em anyway, i dont steal things


so is the DYD ebook actually like, stuff i would learn just by reading the bible compared to the advanced series which i would definately learn beyond anything this website and these forums could teach me?
A portion of the stuff is covered in the bible however the eBooks are set up a bit better as a learning mechanism more so than an information repository.

Think of comparing a school text book to an encyclopedia. The encyclopedia may have more information but you wouldn't read one from beginning to end, you would look up information on a specific topic.
 

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I wouldn't be suprised if some of the authors put stuff up on p2p.

You get a chance to see SOME of their stuff, if it's any good you buy the stuff that you can't download.

Personally, although I rate DYD stuff highly, I parted with good money for the Michael Pilinski ebook and it's ideal for the type of newbies you get on here who whine about not having the balls to approach.

I've seen the Swinggcat stuff on p2p and that was ok too.

If I wrote a book, I'd invest in having it printed;)
 

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I've bough a few of the cheaper ones

Dating Insider -- which I may have found via other sources than this site -- was a real eye-opener. Very good stuff about the importance of charisma. It explained just what was happening when I was "on." 5 stars.

Double Your Dating backfired when I tried to hard to force the ****y/funny thing and became a bit too much of a jerk for my own good. Best if you have the gift of gab. Otherwise OK if you de-emphasize the ****y/funny. Best to de-program guys who drive gals away with wuss behavior.

The best of all for me was Miike Pilinki's High Status Male ebook. It's very much in the Pook self-improvement vein. It gives good, practical info on how to make the matter of approaching women essentially a non-issue. 5 stars.

Swinggcat's articles look very good, too, but after the other stuff and this site, I thing a lot of his stuff would be going down paths I've already travelled.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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