Dating different women with different colored hair!!! (It's a Pain!)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

spiegel549

Senior Don Juan

Mar 1, 2016

I never realized how much of a pain in the azz this could be but I am seeing two main plates on the regular and ones a blonde, the other has black hair. I had the one with the black hair over last and she had this gold dress on and 3 days later I am STILL finding her hair and gold flakes everywhere haha. I have vacuumed, changed the bed sheets, swept the floors etc.

I can not have the blonde over and have her finding long azz black hair and gold flakes LOL.

Any funny stories to share about this? Tips?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.