"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu

Stop bothering her for plans. Go date some other women, etc. I'm not saying he should be sitting around waiting for her... Tell her "well I see you're so busy, so if you want to hang out you can call me". Basically let her know that you're not going to continue chasing her. That way if it was a game, she knows it's not working and will give it up. If it's not a game and she's actually busy, you haven't thrown away your chances with a nice, hot girl. Assume she's not going to ever call you.
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Very good advice. it sounds like we're all on the same page - the point is, be busy, try other girls, and don't get hung on the one girl who is or is not busy.

As for over-analysis, I think both guys and girls do it, and in the end, it really is just over-analysis.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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