School
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Has anyone every dated a black girl? I see all these threads about White Women and their attitudes. Tell about your experiences with Black women....
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You don't have to have anybody's approval, but your comtempt for your own race shines through in almost everything you say. Being black is OK; Being white is OK. You just don't seem to like the latter too much.Originally posted by School
Why do I wish I was black because I date black women??? Is there something wrong with that! No. I am happy in my skin!! I don't need your approval or anybody elses.
This is on the mark!Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
The only difference between the attitudes of different races is the way they are brought up. There is nothing in the genes that tells the baby what culture they are. Culture and hence behaviour, is completely learned.
For example:
Barring significant interference from outside sources (i.e, the media, friends, etc)
If you....
Raise a black woman in a white family, she will be "white".
Raise a chinese boy in a white family, he will be "white".
etc.....
Look at her family and see their values. Look at her friends and see their values. Similar people tend to gravitate towards each other. Her family and friends are a good indication of who she is.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What the fvck is purple pvssy???Originally posted by mentalwealth
black chicks have purple pussies and size 13 shoe.
barney snatchOriginally posted by usedtolurk
What the fvck is purple pvssy???
KILL YOURSELFOriginally posted by mentalwealth
black chicks have purple pussies and size 13 shoe.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.