School
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Has anyone every dated a black girl? I see all these threads about White Women and their attitudes. Tell about your experiences with Black women....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You don't have to have anybody's approval, but your comtempt for your own race shines through in almost everything you say. Being black is OK; Being white is OK. You just don't seem to like the latter too much.Originally posted by School
Why do I wish I was black because I date black women??? Is there something wrong with that! No. I am happy in my skin!! I don't need your approval or anybody elses.
This is on the mark!Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
The only difference between the attitudes of different races is the way they are brought up. There is nothing in the genes that tells the baby what culture they are. Culture and hence behaviour, is completely learned.
For example:
Barring significant interference from outside sources (i.e, the media, friends, etc)
If you....
Raise a black woman in a white family, she will be "white".
Raise a chinese boy in a white family, he will be "white".
etc.....
Look at her family and see their values. Look at her friends and see their values. Similar people tend to gravitate towards each other. Her family and friends are a good indication of who she is.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What the fvck is purple pvssy???Originally posted by mentalwealth
black chicks have purple pussies and size 13 shoe.
barney snatchOriginally posted by usedtolurk
What the fvck is purple pvssy???
KILL YOURSELFOriginally posted by mentalwealth
black chicks have purple pussies and size 13 shoe.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.