"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating an older woman?

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Hey you guys doing? I frequent the High School forum daily, but I have a question for you older guys.

I'm 18 and in community college. I am seeing a girl that is almost 21 and she doesn't go to school. She makes a lot of money by working at Verizon 6 days a week. I'm not sure how to be with her, she's way more sexually experienced than me too. I've been active for a year with 5 girls, she's been with like 8-9 guys. I'm not exactly sure how to deal with this one... it's different for older women I guess.

Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Hey you guys doing? I frequent the High School forum daily, but I have a question for you older guys.

I'm 18 and in community college. I am seeing a girl that is almost 21 and she doesn't go to school. She makes a lot of money by working at Verizon 6 days a week. I'm not sure how to be with her, she's way more sexually experienced than me too. I've been active for a year with 5 girls, she's been with like 8-9 guys. I'm not exactly sure how to deal with this one... it's different for older women I guess.

Thanks!
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Just relax, and be ez and enjoy the ride. You will either be together a while or you wont. Its not more complicated then that. Also as long as you learn the S.D.F.U. technigue you will never have to worry about saying the wrong thing.

ps. For all those that dont know the S.D.F.U. technique which most guys dont learn until they get older-it stands for
Shut Da Fu#k Up. and listen.
 
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I get the feeling she's looking for a guy that will sweep her off her feet - her dream guy.

In words, I am. I am not really a man of action. How can I start doing that better?
 
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Haha. First of all, she is not that much older than you, so it is no big deal. And the number of total partners you've both had is not that much of a difference to make it a factor.

With that being said, you say she's been with 8-9 partners, and if that's based on what she's told you, you can count on her having slept with a few to a lot more than the number you mentioned. So, if that is the case, she's slept with 3x the amount, and started having sex a long time ago before you did.
 
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When i was 16 i ****ed 25 years old girl.
When i was 17 i was ****in 19s.
When i was 22 i ****ed a few 25s.
Atm im in LTR with 2 yeas older woman.
I ****ed also lots of young ones, but older is better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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