"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All I've ever known how to be well is a player (when dealing with women), and having said that that, I can use all the advice I can get.

I decided on calming down for awhile and focusing on my grades, so I picked up a girlfriend that I find attractive and that will be a good companion.

She told me she's been with 18 people and she's 21. Who am I to critique her, I've been with something over 100.

I think I'm looking for piece of mind because everyone woman I've dated has been around or under 10, and I'm not used to this girl's sexual behavior, I.E. I can't always tell when she's had an orgasm. I know my way around a woman's body and how, what, and when to do things. I guess it's giving me a little anxiety not having complete control. I've been more aggresive as a result and have blamed my distant attitude has having a backbone, and say most importantly is keeping my integrity as a man.

If I can't get advice or solace with a response on how I should be treating and acting around this girl with respect to an LTR (I suck with em), does anyone at least have tips on sex? We've been hooking up about three times a day and I think my first step is to make the sex life more unexpected and random... at least that's what I remember from Sir Chancelot's posts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't think you need any tips on sex. However the rest of your post is pretty vague, I don't get exactly what your asking.
 

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wow 100 girls at 21. You are like my role model, lol, I cant resist but to ask, how did you pull this off? Did u have a fake ID? Also, were most of these girls met through friends of friends, or did u just approach random girls on your own?
 

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Holy **** I found out the problem. This chick has a problem getting off unless she's choked. I think I need to start a new topic before I break up with her, this fukcing sucks. I don't mind some occassional choking, but EVERY time... WTF!!

By the way, in high school I put a lot of effort towards approaching women and meeting through friends. My rep was starting to get bad when I went to college, but in college it's like stealing candy. Yes I had a fake ID.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah!
Grate man u'r genius 100 girls at 21 amazing.
I don't think you need any tips on sex.
But i need u'r advice...,
 
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