Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All I've ever known how to be well is a player (when dealing with women), and having said that that, I can use all the advice I can get.

I decided on calming down for awhile and focusing on my grades, so I picked up a girlfriend that I find attractive and that will be a good companion.

She told me she's been with 18 people and she's 21. Who am I to critique her, I've been with something over 100.

I think I'm looking for piece of mind because everyone woman I've dated has been around or under 10, and I'm not used to this girl's sexual behavior, I.E. I can't always tell when she's had an orgasm. I know my way around a woman's body and how, what, and when to do things. I guess it's giving me a little anxiety not having complete control. I've been more aggresive as a result and have blamed my distant attitude has having a backbone, and say most importantly is keeping my integrity as a man.

If I can't get advice or solace with a response on how I should be treating and acting around this girl with respect to an LTR (I suck with em), does anyone at least have tips on sex? We've been hooking up about three times a day and I think my first step is to make the sex life more unexpected and random... at least that's what I remember from Sir Chancelot's posts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't think you need any tips on sex. However the rest of your post is pretty vague, I don't get exactly what your asking.
 

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wow 100 girls at 21. You are like my role model, lol, I cant resist but to ask, how did you pull this off? Did u have a fake ID? Also, were most of these girls met through friends of friends, or did u just approach random girls on your own?
 

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Holy **** I found out the problem. This chick has a problem getting off unless she's choked. I think I need to start a new topic before I break up with her, this fukcing sucks. I don't mind some occassional choking, but EVERY time... WTF!!

By the way, in high school I put a lot of effort towards approaching women and meeting through friends. My rep was starting to get bad when I went to college, but in college it's like stealing candy. Yes I had a fake ID.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah!
Grate man u'r genius 100 girls at 21 amazing.
I don't think you need any tips on sex.
But i need u'r advice...,
 
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