"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating After Divorce

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Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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217 said:
Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
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Which society says you should sit home and sulk ? Sulking is for chicks.

I got divorced 5 years ago, first 6 months is an adjustment but talk to as many women as you can. Make sure to get back to doing things you love to do that you gave up for your wife ( every guy has ) an d most importantly hit the gym and go buy some new clothes.

Good luck, you'll be fine.
 
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EVERY woman you know will have her fat friends lined up waiting for the date it's official. The ones with repeated bad taste have to be told the "I'm not ready yet line" just so you can stop meeting her fat friends. I got lucky a day after the signing... then decided I had better things to do[well having the basement flooded and remodeled at the same time helped]
 
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