"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating After Divorce

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Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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217 said:
Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
Which society says you should sit home and sulk ? Sulking is for chicks.

I got divorced 5 years ago, first 6 months is an adjustment but talk to as many women as you can. Make sure to get back to doing things you love to do that you gave up for your wife ( every guy has ) an d most importantly hit the gym and go buy some new clothes.

Good luck, you'll be fine.
 

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EVERY woman you know will have her fat friends lined up waiting for the date it's official. The ones with repeated bad taste have to be told the "I'm not ready yet line" just so you can stop meeting her fat friends. I got lucky a day after the signing... then decided I had better things to do[well having the basement flooded and remodeled at the same time helped]
 
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