“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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217 said:
Hey fellas,

Kind of new here. I read the bible and did bootcamp probably 5+ years back.

Anyways, I'm in the process of divorce which should be done in March. I'm looking for any tips that would be specific to my situation. My wife cheated on me. We have 2 young kids. There's a few women out there. I feel like society says I'm supposed to sulk and wait forever, but I don't feel that way.

I have a girl-friend of a female friend/coworker of mine. Only met her once, now in contact via social media (recently). What's the best way to do this!?
Which society says you should sit home and sulk ? Sulking is for chicks.

I got divorced 5 years ago, first 6 months is an adjustment but talk to as many women as you can. Make sure to get back to doing things you love to do that you gave up for your wife ( every guy has ) an d most importantly hit the gym and go buy some new clothes.

Good luck, you'll be fine.
 

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EVERY woman you know will have her fat friends lined up waiting for the date it's official. The ones with repeated bad taste have to be told the "I'm not ready yet line" just so you can stop meeting her fat friends. I got lucky a day after the signing... then decided I had better things to do[well having the basement flooded and remodeled at the same time helped]
 
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