"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dating a workaholic chick...

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Cassify

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I know you guys are going to say that if a chick wants to see you she will, but...

I'm dating a medicine student right now, and the chick is busy as **** she's on duty like 3 times a week, and sometimes she needs to cancel our dates because of it...and this **** is frustrating to me, eventhou everytime we see each other we have a great time together...

pls, i'd like to know what you guys thoughts on that
have you guys ever been in a relationship with a workaholic chick!?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ex girlfriend was pre med
wanted to be a spinal surgeon lol

We had really good times together, but she worked and did school **** religiously.
I found it frustrating too, if I were you i'd just spin another plate.
If you're in a committed relationship
I know the feeling, you want to be supportive
But you also have needs and you have to remember that.
If this girl isn't filling the Girlfriend role that you want then you'll have to find another or put up with being put off for work, your choice.
 
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can you be more detailed on how much and when she is actually working or doing
 
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That schedule is not by "choice." That is if she doesn't want to get kicked out and get her degree she'll have to study 24-7 so I'm not sure if you can call her a workaholic.

It seems quite obvious to me that you aren't as busy. You'll have to deal with this ....probably forever. This is what it's like being with a doctor. The types of people who end of staying together with such people are those who are just as busy and cannot find time.
 
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