"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dating a workaholic chick...

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Cassify

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I know you guys are going to say that if a chick wants to see you she will, but...

I'm dating a medicine student right now, and the chick is busy as **** she's on duty like 3 times a week, and sometimes she needs to cancel our dates because of it...and this **** is frustrating to me, eventhou everytime we see each other we have a great time together...

pls, i'd like to know what you guys thoughts on that
have you guys ever been in a relationship with a workaholic chick!?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ex girlfriend was pre med
wanted to be a spinal surgeon lol

We had really good times together, but she worked and did school **** religiously.
I found it frustrating too, if I were you i'd just spin another plate.
If you're in a committed relationship
I know the feeling, you want to be supportive
But you also have needs and you have to remember that.
If this girl isn't filling the Girlfriend role that you want then you'll have to find another or put up with being put off for work, your choice.
 
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can you be more detailed on how much and when she is actually working or doing
 
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That schedule is not by "choice." That is if she doesn't want to get kicked out and get her degree she'll have to study 24-7 so I'm not sure if you can call her a workaholic.

It seems quite obvious to me that you aren't as busy. You'll have to deal with this ....probably forever. This is what it's like being with a doctor. The types of people who end of staying together with such people are those who are just as busy and cannot find time.
 
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