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Master Don Juan
YOU ARE TRYING TO DO TOOOOOO MUCH. Man. Damm.StevenR said:
Look, just keep it simple. I told you this already, and this post of yours makes me want to shake you hard by the shoulders.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dating a woman who makes more money than me?
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Look, just keep it simple. I told you this already, and this post of yours makes me want to shake you hard by the shoulders.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well, I am doing exactly that with her on saturday. It seems that, right now at least, she really likes me. I am suddenly confused and have doubts I can keep this charade up. You see-
http://www.halfsigma.com/2007/01/alpha_beta_and_.html
I am, without a doubt, based on my dating history, an omega male. So why the hell would this wonderful woman want me? Have I somehow duped her into thinking I am an alpha or something? I don't get it, what did I do?
http://www.halfsigma.com/2007/01/alpha_beta_and_.html
I am, without a doubt, based on my dating history, an omega male. So why the hell would this wonderful woman want me? Have I somehow duped her into thinking I am an alpha or something? I don't get it, what did I do?
IamMyownMan
Don Juan
StevenR-said: I decided(okay, chickened out) to ask her next time since I knew she had to get up early, but after we were done making out she came back to make sure I knew how to find my way back okay(we were by our cars), and we started making out again.I thought maybe she wanted something more and did ask her if she wanted to get a movie. She said tonight wouldn't be a good night, and we kissed goodbye.
Dude, I think she did want something more but you asked if she did instead of taking her. She wanted passion but you asked for permission which spoiled the recipe(that day). No big deal, she is still hanging around for a banging. She already knows that you are trying to get the "honey" because you all are "dating" or "seeing each other", so stop worrying and plotting about it, and just take her.
You need to get this "why would she want me?" question out of your head, because you will eventually project that thought onto her and she will ask herself the same and be long gone before you know it.
Money should be no issue for you at this stage as someone said. If she doesn't want to be with you because you do not have the minimum balance required in your account, you are better off without her now, later, and in the future and she is in fact doing you a favor by exiting your life.
Don't worry about the Alpha/Beta/Omega labels right now. It doesn't apply to your current situation and you are using it as a crutch/ causing or maybe predicting your own self-fulfilling prophecy that she will move on.
This is your life man. The only person whose label should matter to you is your own so stop defining yourself as unimportant. If you continue to do this, she will pick up on it. You are the STAR in your own life tale, now start acting like it. Let her be the leading lady in the next raunchy sex scene in your tale.
Dude, I think she did want something more but you asked if she did instead of taking her. She wanted passion but you asked for permission which spoiled the recipe(that day). No big deal, she is still hanging around for a banging. She already knows that you are trying to get the "honey" because you all are "dating" or "seeing each other", so stop worrying and plotting about it, and just take her.
You need to get this "why would she want me?" question out of your head, because you will eventually project that thought onto her and she will ask herself the same and be long gone before you know it.
Money should be no issue for you at this stage as someone said. If she doesn't want to be with you because you do not have the minimum balance required in your account, you are better off without her now, later, and in the future and she is in fact doing you a favor by exiting your life.
Don't worry about the Alpha/Beta/Omega labels right now. It doesn't apply to your current situation and you are using it as a crutch/ causing or maybe predicting your own self-fulfilling prophecy that she will move on.
This is your life man. The only person whose label should matter to you is your own so stop defining yourself as unimportant. If you continue to do this, she will pick up on it. You are the STAR in your own life tale, now start acting like it. Let her be the leading lady in the next raunchy sex scene in your tale.
okay I am seeing her tomorrow night, we are going to go to this art fair thing they have in town and then go for dinner at a local restaurant. I will be meeting her there at six. I will probably end up walking with her to her car in the dark, which is the perfect time to escalate the passion, then she may give me a ride to my car. I have never been to her place, but her place is a lot closer than my place(about 10min vs 45min for my place). What is the best way to escalate the passion and maximize my chances that I end up over at her place given this situation?
Ok stop right here, stop meeting her places, pick her up, so you have to either go to her place or yours. You are letting her control everything, take her out of her comfort zone. Fake that your car is broken and have her pick you up or something. If you do not atleast get her naked tommorw then forget this. This is the Mature section and a make session with some half ass boobie grabbin in not OK...
Another thought, go get a semi decent bottle of wine and tell her that why don't we have a few ****tails before we goto the theatre, get in her place..
Another thought, go get a semi decent bottle of wine and tell her that why don't we have a few ****tails before we goto the theatre, get in her place..
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
she actually works tomorrow until the time I am meeting her, and her place of work is a few blocks from where we are meeting. I know it would have been easier to pick her up or vise versa, but I am trying to work with what I have here. There must be some way I can make the transition, without having to fake my car being broken.
well, if anything, at least it is practice, which I need bad to catch up in life.
well, if anything, at least it is practice, which I need bad to catch up in life.