Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dating a trans

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Not a provocation. I've found hot trans MTF on OLD. Considering dating her.

What are your thoughts? I am afraid her tongue may taste male though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm a bit hypocritical with this, I must admit. As far as my politics/personal beliefs go, a man who has completed the process of transitioning to a woman should 100% be considered a woman, legally and otherwise. Same the other way round.

However I still don't know if I could ever feel comfortable dating a trans woman myself. I don't think so.

I think mostly because I find the facial features of some trans women often still look somewhat male with sharp cheekbones and so on (obviously I guess hormone treatment doesn't effect that area of your body), so I just naturally don't find that attractive. Also while I know they're no longer male, it still spins me out that they used to be.

I guess as techniques for transitioning improve over the next decades these discomforts will probably become a non-issue in future because the process will be almost perfect. But for me, personally, I don't think it'd be my cup of tea.
 

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I'm a bit hypocritical with this, I must admit. As far as my politics/personal beliefs go, a man who has completed the process of transitioning to a woman should 100% be considered a woman, legally and otherwise. Same the other way round.

However I still don't know if I could ever feel comfortable dating a trans woman myself. I don't think so.

I think mostly because I find the facial features of some trans women often still look somewhat male with sharp cheekbones and so on (obviously I guess hormone treatment doesn't effect that area of your body), so I just naturally don't find that attractive. Also while I know they're no longer male, it still spins me out that they used to be.

I guess as techniques for transitioning improve over the next decades these discomforts will probably become a non-issue in future because the process will be almost perfect. But for me, personally, I don't think it'd be my cup of tea.
I think she started at 18 or smth because her face is really feminine. I know what u talking about. Its bxuz men bones are bigger. So the earlier operations will take place the thicker they will be
 

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I'm a bit hypocritical with this, I must admit. As far as my politics/personal beliefs go, a man who has completed the process of transitioning to a woman should 100% be considered a woman, legally and otherwise. Same the other way round.

However I still don't know if I could ever feel comfortable dating a trans woman myself. I don't think so.

I think mostly because I find the facial features of some trans women often still look somewhat male with sharp cheekbones and so on (obviously I guess hormone treatment doesn't effect that area of your body), so I just naturally don't find that attractive. Also while I know they're no longer male, it still spins me out that they used to be.

I guess as techniques for transitioning improve over the next decades these discomforts will probably become a non-issue in future because the process will be almost perfect. But for me, personally, I don't think it'd be my cup of tea.
You think a fabricated pair of t!tts and pvssy and psychological problems make a dude a chic, because he says so? Ok, maybe the psychological problem part but.... Lol. And legally means, that this line of thinking is forced on the rest of society to think so too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I say you try it and report back. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
 

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Not a provocation. I've found hot trans MTF on OLD. Considering dating her.

What are your thoughts? I am afraid her tongue may taste male though.
The "she" is biologically a MALE with fake tits and fake pvssy.

But hey, if that's your taste then who r we to say otherwise.

Good luck !
 

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You think a fabricated pair of t!tts and pvssy and psychological problems make a dude a chic, because he says so? Ok, maybe the psychological problem part but.... Lol. And legally means, that this line of thinking is forced on the rest of society to think so too.
I think the alternative of telling people who have gone as far as to have hormone injections and their nuts cut off to change gender that "No mate, you're still a man LMAO" is far worse/crueler. Though I will say that these people who think gender is a "social construct" p*ss me off, because we literally have different junk and bone structure.

Men who wake up one day and say "I'm going to be a woman today because I feel like it. Call me she." while not undergoing any kind of transitional medical process are mentally ill IMO and need mental health treatment, not a gender change.

And I do think that people who want to transition do probably have a deep-rooted psychological schism of some sort, yes. Not necessarily a disorder but it's definitely a grey area.

So as I said, I'm deeply uncomfortable with dating anyone trans, because I don't feel 100% from a dating perspective that they are really the gender I'm attracted to. But if someone wants to radically change their physical body to allow themselves to change gender, it's not my place to tell them they cannot do that or give them s*** for it. Tough and complex topic, though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was actually pretty happy to see this topic brought up here. More than the common dating advice, i respect the general logic/critical thinking skills of most contributors at this site. This is a controversial topic, and happy to see there's already been some good dialogue to read.

Personally, as someone raised in LA, CA where this type of thing is pretty common/openly discussed/less taboo, I would have no problem banging a trans if she was attractive enough.

Now marrying/LTR/etc. probably not. Just too many social stigmas to ever lead a normal life in that situation.
 

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Her testosterone mustve been reduced so its not just tits and puss
Just the top of my mind, the only living creature I know that has the biological ability to switch genders r chickens.

But go ahead and report back.

I'm curious if the SHE taste like a man..
 

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I had one acquaintance ages ago, didn't know him very well but he was very sexually liberal. Slept with a lot of women, not always traditional hotties either. As far as I know he was straight as an arrow, though, not bisexual or anything like that.

Anyway he once told me quite candidly that he slept with a trans woman, and in his exact words "It was great, just like a normal girl. Felt the same and I would do it again."

Again, he was very liberal with sex, though. Take it for what it's worth. And as I said, not for me...ha. It's not like there's a lack of 100% natural home grown fluffy feline out there anyway ;)
 

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Not a provocation. I've found hot trans MTF on OLD. Considering dating her.

What are your thoughts? I am afraid her tongue may taste male though.
Are you going to pitch or catch if it comes down to it?
 

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yes it's still gay if you go into it knowing it's a tranny

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just the top of my mind, the only living creature I know that has the biological ability to switch genders r chickens.
plenty of weirdo species do that though

usually stuff like plants and invertebrates though
 

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plenty of weirdo species do that though

usually stuff like plants and invertebrates though
XXX HOT PLANT ACTION. LEAF-ON-LEAF. 100% ORGANIC, RIPE.

Who here's f*cked a gorgeous 10/10 hedge? What are your thoughts on trees?
 

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Are you high? From face shes 7-8/10. Flawless.
And how can I be catcher if she has puss not a ****.

Also shes 22 and looks very feminine
Bahaha! You're considering banging a trans and you're asking if I'm high?!?! You never specified if he was pre or post op.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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