So I hit it off with a really cute girl a 9.0 in my books, has the look and smarts that I like, problem is she has the same name as my sister...so needless to say sexual things seem kinda weird. Any solutions, I know nicknames are a possibility but still, in the heat of the moment Id call out her full name anyways.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dating a girl with my sisters name...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I've only ran into one girl with my sisters' name, but it shot my horse immediately. I would not presume to fight my own knee jerk physiological response, you know?
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Or enjoy the fantasy.
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I've ****ed a girl by my MOMS name and it didn't bother me at all. The fact that their name was the same hardly even crossed my mind, at least during sex.. I think you're just thinking about it too much. Don't make it an issue, and if all else fails give her a nickname.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
do you have a problem with your sister's name? I dont have one...
now seriously,,, start a nickname for your sister and another different nickname for your girl and within a month you wont have that confusion at all. that will do the trick for sure.
now seriously,,, start a nickname for your sister and another different nickname for your girl and within a month you wont have that confusion at all. that will do the trick for sure.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.