So I hit it off with a really cute girl a 9.0 in my books, has the look and smarts that I like, problem is she has the same name as my sister...so needless to say sexual things seem kinda weird. Any solutions, I know nicknames are a possibility but still, in the heat of the moment Id call out her full name anyways.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dating a girl with my sisters name...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I've only ran into one girl with my sisters' name, but it shot my horse immediately. I would not presume to fight my own knee jerk physiological response, you know?
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Or enjoy the fantasy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I've ****ed a girl by my MOMS name and it didn't bother me at all. The fact that their name was the same hardly even crossed my mind, at least during sex.. I think you're just thinking about it too much. Don't make it an issue, and if all else fails give her a nickname.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
do you have a problem with your sister's name? I dont have one...
now seriously,,, start a nickname for your sister and another different nickname for your girl and within a month you wont have that confusion at all. that will do the trick for sure.
now seriously,,, start a nickname for your sister and another different nickname for your girl and within a month you wont have that confusion at all. that will do the trick for sure.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.