"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dating a girl in class....good idea?

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im interested in a lot of girls in my classes. But, is it a good idea to date girls that are in the same classes as you? I guess its not the dating part, more of the what if we break up part. I mean, wouldnt that kinda be ackward.

For the most part, ive stayed clear of this situation because of the feared repercussions. But theres a few girls that I am kinda interested in dating....and they are in my classes. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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go for it dude

you won't be in school forever.
 
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do it man who cares. if it didnt work out too bad just find somebody else. doesnt matter if it will be akward or not. if you break up with a girl tell her that things arent going to work out and you enjoyed your time with her. (unless u didnt) anyways just go with it who cares.
 
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From experience I can say its really not a bad idea. Last semester I had this chick in my class and we started having lunch after class and then we started dating. Things moved really fast and then I broke it off. After that we were still cool though.

And one of the benefits of hooking up with a girl in your class is that other girls find out and *poof* theres your social proof. Things may not have worked out between me and the girl....but I'm talking to 3 other girls in the class now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is really a dicey subject. It kind of depends on your skill level and how you can handle things. If you're a noob, you shouldn't really try it. My 1st attempt at this was diastrous. If you've done it alot or just know how to handle situations like this then you should be fine. Ex. Have you dated girls that you went to school with? church with? close friends that went to something more? (You see my drift!) :)
 
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