"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dating a girl in class....good idea?

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im interested in a lot of girls in my classes. But, is it a good idea to date girls that are in the same classes as you? I guess its not the dating part, more of the what if we break up part. I mean, wouldnt that kinda be ackward.

For the most part, ive stayed clear of this situation because of the feared repercussions. But theres a few girls that I am kinda interested in dating....and they are in my classes. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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go for it dude

you won't be in school forever.
 
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do it man who cares. if it didnt work out too bad just find somebody else. doesnt matter if it will be akward or not. if you break up with a girl tell her that things arent going to work out and you enjoyed your time with her. (unless u didnt) anyways just go with it who cares.
 
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From experience I can say its really not a bad idea. Last semester I had this chick in my class and we started having lunch after class and then we started dating. Things moved really fast and then I broke it off. After that we were still cool though.

And one of the benefits of hooking up with a girl in your class is that other girls find out and *poof* theres your social proof. Things may not have worked out between me and the girl....but I'm talking to 3 other girls in the class now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is really a dicey subject. It kind of depends on your skill level and how you can handle things. If you're a noob, you shouldn't really try it. My 1st attempt at this was diastrous. If you've done it alot or just know how to handle situations like this then you should be fine. Ex. Have you dated girls that you went to school with? church with? close friends that went to something more? (You see my drift!) :)
 
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