"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dating a Girl Going Through Divorce

RangerMIke

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I've never dated a married chick... I had a thing going with one a couple years ago for a few months, and when I found out she was married I backed off. I've hooked up occasionally with a married chick here and there, but I didn't know they were married until after the fact... then stopped. There are too many available women out there to be jumping into that wild dog pit intentionally.

Once I dated a chick that had just broken up with a guy in a 9 year relationship, they were engaged.... man it was such a pain... the emotions and flaking... I just walked away. Now she is with a guy she's been dating for a year, and occasionally she'll send me a "what's up" text. I'll try to make a date... and she just goes away... I really don't care, if she ever wants to hook up again I'm okay with it, but I am not going to put any effort towards her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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No but I banged a few chicks who were married that had husbands who didn't fvck them properly and they needed someone who could.
 
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