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Dating a girl 4 years younger then me

odecit_1

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I just wanted to find out some opinions on this board about dating younger girls, I am now in my 4th year of university and i meet a girl that is just starting her 1st year. (so she's 18 and I am 22) now personally i feel that i am in control / more confident with younger girls compared to girls my age. Now ofcourse there are some problems with a relationship like that, b/c first of all I don't have as much to talk with her then with people my age and also another thing i find is that girls that are 17/18.. are proportionally smaller then me simply because they are still developing and they will be proportionaly my size when they reach their 20's ..perhaps these reasons are not very significant if i like the girl but I am still having some doubts. How many here date younger girls ? and how many prefer to have girls their age or older?
 

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Here is the rule.

Take your age. Divide it by 2. Then add 7. That is the ideal age for the girl you should date.

Your age / Girls ideal age
16 / 15
17 / 15.5
18 / 16
19 / 16.5
20 / 17
21 / 17.5
22 / 18
23 / 18.5
24 / 19
25 / 19.5
...
30 / 22
...
35 / 24.5
...
40 / 27
etc.

I can't remember where I heard this, and I think it was a joke, but it does seem fairly accurate.
 

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Date any one you like, of any (legal) age. My last LTR was with a woman ten years older than me, now i'm seeing someone six years younger. Variety is the spice of life.
 

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Originally posted by Nighthawk
now i'm seeing someone six years younger.
Your age= 26.
divide by 2 = 13
plus 7 = 20 (her ideal age)

six years younger than 26 is 20! HA! I knew I was onto something.

Also, the original poster said that his age was 22 and the girl was 18. Look at the chart. Weird.
 

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Ummm... I prefer older girls because they are more developped. I get more intimidated though for whatever reason. I love dating older girls because they're more mature and more of a challenge... you can always tell the diff between a teen and a 20 yr old. It's weird.
Oldest i've gone out w/ is 31 youngest is 17. . . I'm 19.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by syncmaster
Ummm... I prefer older girls because they are more developped. I get more intimidated though for whatever reason. I love dating older girls because they're more mature and more of a challenge... you can always tell the diff between a teen and a 20 yr old. It's weird.
Oldest i've gone out w/ is 31 youngest is 17. . . I'm 19.
Well the thing is that i am intiminated dating girls my age / older girls, I don' t know how you could ever have dated a 31 year old... that seems like something unhuman to me... i mean not that I could' t, just htat I would't


BTW,! your're from Ottawa , me too!!!!
 

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age differences mean very little when it comes to how you BOTH are around each other... hell, you could even help her with some of her homework! youve already done some of the classes she'll end up in, one way you'll get to spend time with her, IMO.
I'm 28... out of the last three LTR's I've had, dating back to when I was 23, all of them were exactly 4 years younger than me.. the girl I'm after right now is 24.
 
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