I just wanted to find out some opinions on this board about dating younger girls, I am now in my 4th year of university and i meet a girl that is just starting her 1st year. (so she's 18 and I am 22) now personally i feel that i am in control / more confident with younger girls compared to girls my age. Now ofcourse there are some problems with a relationship like that, b/c first of all I don't have as much to talk with her then with people my age and also another thing i find is that girls that are 17/18.. are proportionally smaller then me simply because they are still developing and they will be proportionaly my size when they reach their 20's ..perhaps these reasons are not very significant if i like the girl but I am still having some doubts. How many here date younger girls ? and how many prefer to have girls their age or older?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dating a girl 4 years younger then me
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Here is the rule.
Take your age. Divide it by 2. Then add 7. That is the ideal age for the girl you should date.
Your age / Girls ideal age
16 / 15
17 / 15.5
18 / 16
19 / 16.5
20 / 17
21 / 17.5
22 / 18
23 / 18.5
24 / 19
25 / 19.5
...
30 / 22
...
35 / 24.5
...
40 / 27
etc.
I can't remember where I heard this, and I think it was a joke, but it does seem fairly accurate.
Take your age. Divide it by 2. Then add 7. That is the ideal age for the girl you should date.
Your age / Girls ideal age
16 / 15
17 / 15.5
18 / 16
19 / 16.5
20 / 17
21 / 17.5
22 / 18
23 / 18.5
24 / 19
25 / 19.5
...
30 / 22
...
35 / 24.5
...
40 / 27
etc.
I can't remember where I heard this, and I think it was a joke, but it does seem fairly accurate.
Your age= 26.Originally posted by Nighthawk
now i'm seeing someone six years younger.
divide by 2 = 13
plus 7 = 20 (her ideal age)
six years younger than 26 is 20! HA! I knew I was onto something.
Also, the original poster said that his age was 22 and the girl was 18. Look at the chart. Weird.
syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Ummm... I prefer older girls because they are more developped. I get more intimidated though for whatever reason. I love dating older girls because they're more mature and more of a challenge... you can always tell the diff between a teen and a 20 yr old. It's weird.
Oldest i've gone out w/ is 31 youngest is 17. . . I'm 19.
Oldest i've gone out w/ is 31 youngest is 17. . . I'm 19.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well the thing is that i am intiminated dating girls my age / older girls, I don' t know how you could ever have dated a 31 year old... that seems like something unhuman to me... i mean not that I could' t, just htat I would'tOriginally posted by syncmaster
Ummm... I prefer older girls because they are more developped. I get more intimidated though for whatever reason. I love dating older girls because they're more mature and more of a challenge... you can always tell the diff between a teen and a 20 yr old. It's weird.
Oldest i've gone out w/ is 31 youngest is 17. . . I'm 19.
BTW,! your're from Ottawa , me too!!!!
mattathensga
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age differences mean very little when it comes to how you BOTH are around each other... hell, you could even help her with some of her homework! youve already done some of the classes she'll end up in, one way you'll get to spend time with her, IMO.
I'm 28... out of the last three LTR's I've had, dating back to when I was 23, all of them were exactly 4 years younger than me.. the girl I'm after right now is 24.
I'm 28... out of the last three LTR's I've had, dating back to when I was 23, all of them were exactly 4 years younger than me.. the girl I'm after right now is 24.