Dating a Feminist

[00Kevin]

I thought I would post this poll too see what everyone thinks about dating a feminist.

My personal view on this is that the vast majority of these women who call themselves feminists are completly useless. They are totally selfish and don't amount to much in a relationship.

I recenty met an italian girl who is the most selfless girl I have ever known. This girl is focused on 'taking care' of her man. Although I don't think I need that sort of thing she is without question worth more to a man then a feminist could ever be.

It is also my conention that feminism is the root cause of AFCism.

I can't for the likes of me think of one good reason why any man would want to date a feminist can you?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I dated a feminist and she was actually queer. Believe it or not, she actually broke down one night and told me that she just wanted someone to take care of her. I'm usually more attracted to self sufficient woman but d@mn, she was great in bed.

Hmmm, I wonder if I still have her number....

 

[rgeere]

Dating a feminist is like dating another man; it just seems morally wrong to me.

 

[00Kevin]

Just another note on this.

I dated a feminist a few years ago. Unfortunatley,it took me a while before I could figure out why I wasn't happy with her.

Every conversation I had with this girl was totally one sided. She would talk about the problems she had guys and then if I tried to do the same and talk about my problems with girls. She would tell me that I didn't have enough confidence or something stupid like that. The truth was I was just totally confused and very frustrated with women.

Now that I look back on it I have realized that my confusion was caused by feminism. The more caught up in feminism the girl was the more confused I would become with women.

Recently, I went out for a drink with this girl and she just didn't respond at all the new confidence that I had. In fact she started to complain about me again. When she realized that I was getting all the girls I wanted it drove her nuts. I guess I wasn't conforming to her feminist definition of the relationship. It was then that I realized how useless she was. So, I made it a point to show her the huge list of girls in my cell phone. I also told her that there used to be more, but I deleted them for not responding to me. At that point, she told me that I was the most pompous sob she had ever known. She also said that women are not just something you can shop around for like you can groceries. At that point I just laughed at her because there was nothing she could do about it. If she only knew how wrong she was. I then said to her, “yeah if it was like grocery shopping at least you could read the label or check the price out before you bought it”

I also realized that this girl (as a feminist) complained about guys all the time. It didn't matter if I was a DJ or an AFC. I can’t believe I wasted my time with her. This girl, as a feminist would always find something to complain about. Now when I date I ask the girl flat out, “Are you a feminist?” If she is and I don’t want any action out of her then I just say, “ok, well I don’t think things will work out.

Later on I came to the conclusion that DJing is really an anti-feminist tool that automatically filters out these worthless women. The gig is up now I guess.

MEN, grab the world by the throat and take the women you want out of it.

 

[jakethasnake]

I had a fvck buddy who mistrusted and DESPISED men, but as she put it, "What can you do.... I don't trust [men]... but I'm still sexually attracted to men. I need to fvck."


I think that despite the stereotype, the great majority of Feminists are fully hetero, and desire cack very strongly. It can be a very tough hi-wire act, however, trying to stay true to ones Feminist ideals and also spread your legs to 'The Man' (Oppressor) for sexual gratification. But then again, I suppose that's why they have dildos.... and Lesbianism (yum! ).

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
I had a fvck buddy who mistrusted and DESPISED men, but as she put it, "What can you do.... I don't trust [men]... but I'm still sexually attracted to men. I need to fvck."


I think that despite the stereotype, the great majority of Feminists are fully hetero, and desire cack very strongly. It can be a very tough hi-wire act, however, trying to stay true to ones Feminist ideals and also spread your legs to 'The Man' (Oppressor) for sexual gratification. But then again, I suppose that's why they have dildos.... and Lesbianism (yum! ).

wise one, are you saying that we should sexually manhandle these women?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I told a girl to 'blow' solely for being a 'feminist' and I didn't need the challenge/drama - women weren't created for that!!! I need a woman and not a man!!

 

[MetalFortress]

Hahah... the day I desire a drink of nice fresh car battery acid is the day I date a feminist.

 

[jakethasnake]

^ ahahahah.....

 

[MindOverMatter]

No, I might go to jail for slaping her around

haha, that part almost made me spit my coffee. funny poll but come on, we're DJs, there is no woman on earth that should intimidate us, and that includes feminists. much like any type of woman (except a lesbian), feminists are still vulnerable to seduction. if you put her in a sexual state, all her social conditioning and feminist values will go right out the window. feminists are a challange, and there are a couple of things I really like about them:

1.) they wanna pay 50/50 for all dates, so you save cash. this may not be a big deal for some of you high rollers, but when you're fresh out of university and got loans to pay off, being with a girl who insists on being financially independant is a great thing.

2.) if you hold doors for them/etc, they take it as a personal insult, so you can be lazy and not get in sh!t for it (in fact, it will give you points in her book!)

3.) it's a good change to be with a strong confident woman for a change. don't get me wrong, the opposite works for me too, but insecure girls do get annoying after a while. by that, I mean:

- she asks you constantly if you think she looks good in one outfit over another, or if she is fat, or if her hair is looking good. don't get me wrong, i don't have a hard time giving compliments, but when a girl is that starved for attention, it's f'in annoying
- she's self-concious about her body, or her sexual desire. for example, they wont let you go down on them because they think you may not like how they taste/smell.

4.) They like their freedom and don't wanna settle down. If you are just looking for a casual relationship, this is a good thing.

5.) They know what they want in life. They know what kind of career they want, what kind of relationship, etc. I really dislike being with girls that can't make up their mind, and are constantly indecisive.

You have to understand that every girl out there now is a feminist to some degree or another, but only 1% of them actually hate men and would rather spend the eternity masturbating then sleeping with one. So why worry about 1%, chances are you will never run into one.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

I also realized that this girl (as a feminist) complained about guys all the time. It didn't matter if I was a DJ or an AFC. I can’t believe I wasted my time with her. This girl, as a feminist would always find something to complain about.

Later on I came to the conclusion that DJing is really an anti-feminist tool that automatically filters out these worthless women. The gig is up now I guess.

I agree with you and I've noticed the same pattern. The feminist I met was always saying:

This guy is ugly;
That one drinks;
That one smokes;
That one is naive;
That one is not funny;
That one doesnt have a hot body;
That one doesnt have a good fashion style.
That one...

It pissed me off!!!

By the way, I started a thread about feminists without seeing yours! I think moderators should merge threads with the same subject. It'd be more compact and organized!

Anyway, is it a coicidence that most feminists I've met are TOMBOYS? Is this a common trait in feminists?

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

There are feminists and then there are MILITANT FEMINISTS and it would behoove some people around here to learn the difference. Someone who thinks that women should receive equal pay or that little girls in school should be able to play sports just like little boys may be a feminist, but that doesn't mean that they want to crush your nuts under their heels.

Now, the "womyn" who can't stand anything masculine, who get pissed off at you simply for having a penis... that's a different animal entirely.

 

[Panda 2000]

There's no such thing as dating a feminist in a DJ's life.

 

[Desdinova]

Regardless, a feminist is still a woman. Never listen to what a woman says, read her actions. A woman will act like a woman if she's in the presence of a real man, no matter what she says.

 

[seize_the_pattern]

There's also feminists who use their brains a bit more wisely and remain women in a feminine way but then with more like overall cultural, political and socio-economical emphasis on their feminism. That in itself is OK. Eventhough I have to admit that these are scarce. But so are cool people anyway in every type of personalities.

 

[Bonhomme]

None of the above

It would strictly depend on who the "feminist" was and in what way she considers herself "feminist." I've had some very good involvements with gals who considered themselves feminist-leaning, and in none of those cases was I subordinate by any stretch. None were ever the kind who spelled women "womyn."

 

[Wiesman44]

I dated a feminist, and she ended up being bipolar. Though I didnt find out til she ran out of medicine, then she had a nervous breakdown, then she cheated on me. So guess what option i picked in this poll .

 

[Mack Bishop]

ive persued one feminist and she just had too much pubic hair for me so never again

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Mack Bishop
ive persued one feminist and she just had too much pubic hair for me so never again

OMG! LMAO....I just spit coffee all over my computer screen when I read that!

I've heard a lot of complaints about feminists in my time, but that is the first time I've ever heard that one! ROTFLMAO

hahahahahahahaha

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

OK. Not to be repetitive in every 'feminist' thread, but the word "feminist" means different things to different people. No doubt the image that you all have of a "feminist" is NOT a woman you'd want to date. But just for the record, most likely a woman who considers herself a feminist in some way, is NOT a butch dykey man-hating evil femi-nazi.

Going by THAT definition of "feminist", hell I wouldn't want to date one if I was a guy either!

And most of Mind-over-matter's examples of feminism are funny too. Sometimes they're true, but again, it's not part of the DEFINITION.

I do admit I had to laugh my ass off at that poll though. I totally loved the "I like to be the subordinate one" answer. LOL.