"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dating a classmate (uni not HS)

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ok...im starting like this girl in my class

what do you guys think of dating a classmate and how do you do it?
i have dated a lot of girls but never a someone from my class or workplace!!!
its kinda awkward
any tips?

or is it just same as hooking up with random chicks from random parties or bars...

PS im not a high school student...Im at UNI!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, I ran over the same problem.

Well Id say it has its pros and cons.

First off, the pros.
Other guys in your class will know you "want" her, and they're gonna back off, at least most of them.
Eventually, everyone will see you as the soon to be "couple", you'll have her for yourself really.

Cons: you have to talk to her 8 hours aday if she really likes you :p
It can turn out to be too fast than you want it, relationship speaking that is.

You can also tell if she dislikes you, IE: she's avoding you by talking to other guys.

Goodluck with it, you'll fix it ;)
 
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Mellow said:
Yeah, I ran over the same problem.

Well Id say it has its pros and cons.

First off, the pros.
Other guys in your class will know you "want" her, and they're gonna back off, at least most of them.
Eventually, everyone will see you as the soon to be "couple", you'll have her for yourself really.

Cons: you have to talk to her 8 hours aday if she really likes you :p
It can turn out to be too fast than you want it, relationship speaking that is.

You can also tell if she dislikes you, IE: she's avoding you by talking to other guys.

Goodluck with it, you'll fix it ;)
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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alright, so i made my move n started talking to her..it turns out shes from my hometown!
and last night, i saw her at a party...so we talked for a while, i kinda get this vibe that she might b interested, but not confirmed yet
she even bought me a drink lol..and introduced me to her friends
but the downside is that afterwards i offered to walk her home but she rejected...:( dammit
well overall, convos were great..am i heading the right way???
my flatmate tells me i shud befriend her 1st...:confused:
 
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chandidas said:
ok...im starting like this girl in my class

what do you guys think of dating a classmate and how do you do it?
i have dated a lot of girls but never a someone from my class or workplace!!!
its kinda awkward
any tips? !
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Dating girls from class at college is not at all weird or awkward unless you make it weird or awkward.

The trick here is simple: DO NOT BECOME HER FRIEND.

Here it is, asking a girl out from class 101: You want to talk to this girl after class, once, or twice, or three times, but not four. Have a couple pleasant 30-second conversations, you should be smiling, laughing about something, you want to be totally NONCHALANT, but also not distracted. Answer her questions tersely, don't blabber, and smile. Ask her something about herself, and then when you have class a few days later, bring it up in some other context, probably in a neg-hit type of comment. Then, the third time you converse with her, preferrably on a monday or tuesday, you get her number. Don't disguise getting her number as something for homework, or tell her it's for anything specific. Just walk out of class with her, chatting about something small, and when you get fifteen feet out the door, stop her and before you turn to leave, tell her "hey, we should hang out sometime. why don't you give me your number, and I'll call you up." Already have your phone in your hand, and be looking at it, ready to type in the number. Don't say "thanks," or anything else. Hit talk, call her, and tell her she has your number in her phone now, and you'll give her a call. Say bye, smile, walk away.

Wait until Friday. Call her at about 1:30PM, and ask her to meet you that night for an early, impromptu date, something fun and informal. She probably won't have big plans for the early part of the night at least, and if she does, that's fine, you can ask her out again with more warning next week. Kino, kiss, and you're in.
 
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