dates where girls make you pay

[mexican_player2]

lol this have gone way to far.

if you want to pay girls, then pay them.

if you dont want to pay them, then dont.

IF she REALLY likes you, that wont matter anyway.

BUT, if she doesnt like you then it will matter.

and like king flex said, if they like you, they will pay you.

"YOU HAVE TO COME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH WITH GAME, BEFORE YOU COME OUT OF YOUR POCKET WITH CHANGE"

REAL CHIT

 

[bigjohnson]

Uh-huh...

LOL.

Hey, it's whatever works I guess, but I figure I'm gonna eat anyway so it's basically a zero-time-loss situation to go out for a bite. If she's decent maybe later we can do something that will cost time. Everyone has to give up something to get something else, and for me that amount of money sn't an issue any more, although I hear you and agree that there was a time when it was worth more.

That has thankfully passed and I hope it never comes back. If I recall correctly that was what I used to call my early 20's ..... heh.

lol this have gone way to far ..... if they like you, they will pay you.

Depends, but do what works for ya. Didn't sound like it worked for you though, I thought that was why you posted? Anyway, yeah, some will do that I suppose but many that would have otherwise been into you enough to split the cost fairly will think (correctly?) that you're a cheap ass low value person and move on. Partly it depends on your situation too IMO - if you have money and you both know it that's one thing, and if you DON'T have money and you both know it that's a different thing as far as I'm concerned.

 

[mexican_player2]

i just wanted to know what y'all think on this situation and how you react when it happens to you.

actually it did work for me because she wants to go out with me again AND i got to dump her ass in the trash where she belongs.

she has been calling me a lot since this date (i just tell her whats up then tell her i gotta go), she also invited me today to a club with her friends, i said i will go but i wont cause i dont care about this hungry hoe, i just wanted new friends thats all.

You see, im a man of value i know what im worth, i value myself more than i value coochie, so i feel like she disrespected me when she made me pay for her chit. she should be trying to impress me not the other way around. period.

I have money, but not for her punk ass. you should have seen her face when she saw my ride lol.

if she thinks im a cheap ass that have no value, THEN that means my game was weak.

cause i have done that with other chicks and they dont care if i didnt pay because they like me, they actually wanted to be with me, those are the girls that i want with me.

i want diamonds and for that i need to identify and throw away all the cubic zirconium.

i have a gf she is a strong 8, she is finer than this hoe and we always split bills she doesnt have a problem with that. The reason of me going out with this hoe was because i want to make new friends thats all, im not looking for some play or anything like it.

 

[bigjohnson]

... i feel like she disrespected me when she made me pay for her ....

Sounds like you're living the dream, good for you. Just a couple points, first she can't make you pay, what she did was convince you to pay when you didn't want to which is an entirely different thing. Keep that in mind for your second date. Secondly, and this is a personal thing you should feel free to ignore as you wish, but the shift key is easy to use and makes you look more literate as well as making your text easier to follow.

 

[Nighthawk]

They should be paying for me!

 

[bigjohnson]

Heh, I've done the "why don't you buy me a drink" routine a few times, it was cool before EVERYONE was doing it. Maybe I'm in a rut but I sort of dig the rut I'm in if you know what I'm saying.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You mean like taking out a male co-worker/family member who's had a bad day to cheer them up, or for birthdays or something?

Nope, someone who looks interesting that you have no prior relationship with. Basically some random guy on the street/club/store that you think you'd like to know better.

 

[bigjohnson]

Nope, someone who looks interesting that you have no prior relationship with. Basically some random guy on the street/club/store that you think you'd like to know better.

I know this isn't how you meant it, but that sounds just alarmingly flamingly flagrantly gay. Like Richard Simmons is channeling through your fingers or something.

 

[mexican_player2]

Sounds like you're living the dream, good for you. Just a couple points, first she can't make you pay, what she did was convince you to pay when you didn't want to which is an entirely different thing. Keep that in mind for your second date. Secondly, and this is a personal thing you should feel free to ignore as you wish, but the shift key is easy to use and makes you look more literate as well as making your text easier to follow.

well let me think for a minute.... um maybe because

#1 i couldnt make her return the drink because she was already drinking it.
#2 she said she "forgot her wallet" and didnt have ANY money

 

[bigjohnson]

well let me think for a minute.... um maybe because

#1 i couldnt make her return the drink because she was already drinking it.
#2 she said she "forgot her wallet" and didnt have ANY money

And that's your problem ... how? If you REALLY don't want to pay then she's a big girl - let her sort it out. I mean, paying is paying and paying is bad, right?

 

[WaterTiger]

Nope, someone who looks interesting that you have no prior relationship with. Basically some random guy on the street/club/store that you think you'd like to know better.

Ahhhh! THAT situation....

I've done it twice. I asked a guy I met at a bookstore out for coffee. We went, but he never called back afterwards.

The other (a stunningly handsome man in an Armani suit) who chucked and said he was married. (...sigh)

Neither experience left me emotionally crippled or bitter. I'm just an old fashioned girl at heart and I like to be asked for a date.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Ahhhh! THAT situation....

I've done it twice. I asked a guy I met at a bookstore out for coffee. We went, but he never called back afterwards...

Who paid for the coffee?