"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dates are widely spaced apart, but when I do hook someone...

ThisNThat

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I have to say I don't get tons of dates per week like some people claim. In fact, I would say I get at the most 5 dates a year.

But, I think my excuse has to do with the fact I live in a more suburban area where it's full of married people with families and retirees. Finding an unattached woman around here is rare, most have at least boyfriends. So I tend to go out of my location to meet women, but they discover I live far, so that's kind of a deal breaker with them, too.

BUt...when I DO get dates, they are pretty much very attractive women. (at least in my eyes), so it's still assuring that I land some attractive and intelligent women and it can last a good while.

I just wish my frequency of meeting UNattached single women would go up higher. I cannot approach a woman in a bookstore without seeing her boyfriend show up around the corner or see a ring on her finger.

Short of going in online dating and speed dating, which I don't care too much for as the odds are stacked against the men...esp. with online dating.

Think it's the geography? Someone told me there ARE single women where I live, true, but they look like someone you'd meet at a Truck Stop rest area/bar...late night at the Wal-Mart. lol

Anyone else in a situation like this where your frequency in which you meet available women are few and far between?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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