“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dates are widely spaced apart, but when I do hook someone...

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I have to say I don't get tons of dates per week like some people claim. In fact, I would say I get at the most 5 dates a year.

But, I think my excuse has to do with the fact I live in a more suburban area where it's full of married people with families and retirees. Finding an unattached woman around here is rare, most have at least boyfriends. So I tend to go out of my location to meet women, but they discover I live far, so that's kind of a deal breaker with them, too.

BUt...when I DO get dates, they are pretty much very attractive women. (at least in my eyes), so it's still assuring that I land some attractive and intelligent women and it can last a good while.

I just wish my frequency of meeting UNattached single women would go up higher. I cannot approach a woman in a bookstore without seeing her boyfriend show up around the corner or see a ring on her finger.

Short of going in online dating and speed dating, which I don't care too much for as the odds are stacked against the men...esp. with online dating.

Think it's the geography? Someone told me there ARE single women where I live, true, but they look like someone you'd meet at a Truck Stop rest area/bar...late night at the Wal-Mart. lol

Anyone else in a situation like this where your frequency in which you meet available women are few and far between?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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