"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dates are widely spaced apart, but when I do hook someone...

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I have to say I don't get tons of dates per week like some people claim. In fact, I would say I get at the most 5 dates a year.

But, I think my excuse has to do with the fact I live in a more suburban area where it's full of married people with families and retirees. Finding an unattached woman around here is rare, most have at least boyfriends. So I tend to go out of my location to meet women, but they discover I live far, so that's kind of a deal breaker with them, too.

BUt...when I DO get dates, they are pretty much very attractive women. (at least in my eyes), so it's still assuring that I land some attractive and intelligent women and it can last a good while.

I just wish my frequency of meeting UNattached single women would go up higher. I cannot approach a woman in a bookstore without seeing her boyfriend show up around the corner or see a ring on her finger.

Short of going in online dating and speed dating, which I don't care too much for as the odds are stacked against the men...esp. with online dating.

Think it's the geography? Someone told me there ARE single women where I live, true, but they look like someone you'd meet at a Truck Stop rest area/bar...late night at the Wal-Mart. lol

Anyone else in a situation like this where your frequency in which you meet available women are few and far between?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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