"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dateing a HB that lives 45 minutes away. What to do on a date?

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I'm dating a really HB who lives about 45 minutes by car away from me. This week I'm going down there to meet her, and as such it's a date. Now what the cräp do I do with her? We've been to her place several times, so that's not an option. I don't know anyone there. Bowling is way to lame, movies too but I keep that as a last option.

I'd take her out for dinner, but I don't wanna spend that much USD on her.


NOW WHAT THE CRÄP DO I DO? PLEASE ADVICE! :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dinner is way lamer than bowling. Bring her over to your place. Go for a ride and check out some free open door music or festival shows. There are tons of things you can do just by doing a search on the web and seeing what's going on in that area.
 
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Ok web search was a good idea. Taking her home to my place too actually... Thanks man!
 
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Do you live near a beach? I have found that hanging out at the beach is an awesome first date....plus you get to see her in a bikini :up:
 
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Go to a nice park, somewhere with a nice view. Roof tops* are awesome. Why don't try having sex with her? That's what I call a good date. Just use your imagination. Anywhere is fine as long as you are having fun. Heck you could even make a stop at an arcade**.

*Rooftop sex is awesome.
**Arcade sex, not so much***.
*** I never had arcade sex.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's her neck of the woods, why doesn't she offer some suggestions on what to do? Wouldn't that make sense?
 
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