"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dateing a HB that lives 45 minutes away. What to do on a date?

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I'm dating a really HB who lives about 45 minutes by car away from me. This week I'm going down there to meet her, and as such it's a date. Now what the cräp do I do with her? We've been to her place several times, so that's not an option. I don't know anyone there. Bowling is way to lame, movies too but I keep that as a last option.

I'd take her out for dinner, but I don't wanna spend that much USD on her.


NOW WHAT THE CRÄP DO I DO? PLEASE ADVICE! :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dinner is way lamer than bowling. Bring her over to your place. Go for a ride and check out some free open door music or festival shows. There are tons of things you can do just by doing a search on the web and seeing what's going on in that area.
 
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Ok web search was a good idea. Taking her home to my place too actually... Thanks man!
 
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Do you live near a beach? I have found that hanging out at the beach is an awesome first date....plus you get to see her in a bikini :up:
 
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Go to a nice park, somewhere with a nice view. Roof tops* are awesome. Why don't try having sex with her? That's what I call a good date. Just use your imagination. Anywhere is fine as long as you are having fun. Heck you could even make a stop at an arcade**.

*Rooftop sex is awesome.
**Arcade sex, not so much***.
*** I never had arcade sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's her neck of the woods, why doesn't she offer some suggestions on what to do? Wouldn't that make sense?
 
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