"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dateing a HB that lives 45 minutes away. What to do on a date?

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I'm dating a really HB who lives about 45 minutes by car away from me. This week I'm going down there to meet her, and as such it's a date. Now what the cräp do I do with her? We've been to her place several times, so that's not an option. I don't know anyone there. Bowling is way to lame, movies too but I keep that as a last option.

I'd take her out for dinner, but I don't wanna spend that much USD on her.


NOW WHAT THE CRÄP DO I DO? PLEASE ADVICE! :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mazeman11

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Dinner is way lamer than bowling. Bring her over to your place. Go for a ride and check out some free open door music or festival shows. There are tons of things you can do just by doing a search on the web and seeing what's going on in that area.
 
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Ok web search was a good idea. Taking her home to my place too actually... Thanks man!
 
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Do you live near a beach? I have found that hanging out at the beach is an awesome first date....plus you get to see her in a bikini :up:
 
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Go to a nice park, somewhere with a nice view. Roof tops* are awesome. Why don't try having sex with her? That's what I call a good date. Just use your imagination. Anywhere is fine as long as you are having fun. Heck you could even make a stop at an arcade**.

*Rooftop sex is awesome.
**Arcade sex, not so much***.
*** I never had arcade sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's her neck of the woods, why doesn't she offer some suggestions on what to do? Wouldn't that make sense?
 
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